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Cathleen, 57
United States, California, Victorville

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About Me

I still look at relationships the old fashioned way, where the man is the man and the woman does'nt seek challenges to overcome him. A man with manners and respect will win my loyalty in a heartbeat. I had several horses and love animals. I'm hoping he likes them too. If you are a real man, with a true passion for love and life, contact me and lets find out if we can experience what real happiness feels like.Another thing, I'm not Malibu Barbie, I have no plastic or gel parts for glamour, I do have a couple of new prosthetics due to a riding accident(hip and knee), and I am curvy with a some extra pounds for a while longer (workin on it)! Cause being stuck and not walking for a while can really sock it to ya! What you see is who I am! My pics are recent but they NEVER show how long you've been on here - making you older than when you first started lookin!!Born and raised in SF but have traveled and lived in other states. Have 2 bikes accredited to my personal build, 57 Panhead and 52 Panhead both from boxes(got them cheap). Took a few months to get them perfect, but was totally worth it. Those bikes have long been sold and are gone but I have two sons, who I raised myself and both have their own fabulous bikes. I love to take the backseat and ride w/friends. I love the outdoors and all the fun it brings. I really enjoy target practice and I love to camp and cook outdoors. There's nothing like cuddling next to an open fire and looking at the stars in the sky. Love watchin a cowboy break/train horses all day, specially if he's a gentle hand. The smell of horses themselves is something to be treasured. And then there's Rodeos, whoo hoo! - get me there! I love rodeos! I like going to truck/tractor pulls too. Quarter mile car races or racing for pinks! Yes, used to race a Puyallup Raceways in Washington state - guess that's why I have a tool fetish! I love tools!! Rather have a new tool than a purse!! LOL Did someone say fishing? OK - yes, I don't like putting squiggly worms on my hook, but I eventually get it done. I also like going to a friendly place where you can dance and get crazy once in awhile! Yeah, I've got some wild in me too. But during those crazy times, remember, if YOU want to be with ME, I don't take a liking to sharing if you know what I mean! I have a passion for the sea too, I love sailing - at the moment I am part of a crew on a 40ft. vessel racing sailboats in the bay - what a blast! I really don't like being alone for LONG periods of time. Everybody needs their own space, but I'm talking week after week, month after month. I want someone who I can cuddle and relax with. It doesn't take much to please me JUST: Love me without fear Trust me without questioning Need me without demanding Want me without restrictions Accept me without change Desire me without inhibitionsWho I'd like to meet:A real man's man -strong, earthy, passionate. I believe that a man should be the king of his castle, but he can’t be king if he is not worthy. I choose to have a life with a man who can respect me, love me from his heart. I want to share life's riches with a guy who knows what the pleasures of life can bring. My guy would be someone who has inner strength and cares enough to reveal his true integrity. Simplicity is my key. I am very passionate and affection melts me. Just thinking about him makes me smile. I'm a very open-minded type person and don't need you to sugar coat anything. The only thing I will ever ask is that you be truthful. Doesn't matter what it is, I'm a big girl and I can handle most anything even if it's through tears! After all that bein' said I'm looking for the same things guys look for: someone that is caring, thoughtful, considerate, mentally and emotionally stable. Right now, a relationship is not necessary, only desired. Long term also means establishing best friends too!I'm pretty open to whatever a guy suggests for our first public meet. This meet will show to the both of us whether or not we get a spark or just friendship. Either way it should be fun for the both of us. We need to be able to communicate with each other. A solid friendship is cool. Maybe it will eventually turn into something we both seek.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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