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Bobbi, 45

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About Me

As we all do, I have a serious and a fun side. I have a strong work ethic and take pride in performing to the best of my ability. I tend to be the social butterfly in my professional and personal life. I enjoy connecting people. Meeting friends for walks around local lakes, dining, and chatting. Most of my social activities are with ladies and young kids these days. I would enjoy getting to know an intelligent, caring, attractive man who makes time for a special person in his life. I want to be with an active person. I like to hike, go to movies, listen to music, dance, and explore the cities. I am a passionate, caring person. I get involved with charitable organizations - I've been a mentor for a high school student, volunteer tax preparer for low-income working families, participate in several charity walks and donate to many organizations. With young children, I don't volunteer as often as I used to but I live by the Golden Rule and try to be the best role model I can be for my children.I still believe in doing all the little things that make my partner feel special and appreciated. When the connection is there, a hand on the small of the back, gentle kisses on the back of the neck and holding hands will be just some of the ways we will express our feelings. My kids are gifts I appreciate everyday. I want to be with someone who is good with young children. I enjoy spending time with my family, friends, and neighbors. I have a positive outlook on life and would enjoy spending time with a man who believes the glass is at least half full. :) If any of this spoke to you, I'd love to hear from you.First meeting - go for an ice cream, coffee, drink or a walk. Meet for an appetizer or do something original - go to a museum and chat while we enjoy our surroundings. I love live music, comedy shows and bowling...all great first REAL dates rather than first meetings.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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Affection, warmth, holding hands, hugs, kisses, intellectual conversations, passion, have adventures, compatibility. I don't want to be married, but I do want a love/partner to grow older with. It's so much more fun with someone! lol I used to work for the County Government...8yrs as a police dispatcher, and 20 yrs as the Manager of the Admin Dept at a crisis center. I've retired from work, but not from Life! I want to go, do, see things, but still have some 'quiet' times with AND without my partner. Also, I can compromise on a lot of things, but not on compatibility. I need to feel a sense of ease/be comfortable with my 'date'. That is foremost. Unfortunately, you can't 'feel' that by looking at someone's picture or reading their 'words'. So, I like to meet in person sooner, rather than later. Only then will you know if that 'feeling' is there...by knowing that you are relaxed, feel your 'walls' coming down, and just enjoy talking and being with that person. 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I joined a gym and work out at least 3 times a wk. NOT that i will stop going, but I am hoping that by the end of ***, I will be in even better shape, feeling good about myself, and totally awesome! LOL If I say I will accomplish a 'goal' (& this is one of them!) I WILL!! :) ****So, plz don't 'write me off' just because I may happen to have 10 or 15 lbs to lose, because it will be gone soon, and... I am just SOOOO Awesome inside and out, with or without them! LOLAlso, I saw this following quote on a gentleman's profile and so agreed with it that I wanted to share it. "Here's how I see it: our youthful physique is on the wane (hell, for must of us, it's already waned) and the elements of beauty have ceased to be based on physical qualities. During this Winter of our lives and as we seek our last love, shouldn't we base our search upon less superficial qualities?" ...Well said, don't you think? 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THEN you'll either dislike me or love me! lolI'm 100% committed to those I care about and who care about me.I love my jeans, but 'dress up' nice. I have many 'interests' ...check them out on my profile. Most people think I'm in my 50s, because I think, act, and look younger, but I'll let you be the judge, because sometimes I wonder about that when I look too close in the mirror!! lol It would be nice if you liked good old fashion romancing...like holding hands, snuggling, hugs, long, slow kisses, PDAs. I look at a guy's eyes and smile first. They tell me a lot!*GENTLEMEN, PLEASE, if a lady has taken the time and gotten up the nerve to send you a message of interest, be considerate enough to send a response, even if your not interested! I'm sure a lot of you would want us to do the same thing. I think we are all on here looking for the same thing. Besides, it's just common courtesy. Your mom didn't raise you to be rude, I'm sure. So make her proud! lol Thanks!Depends on what you mean by first date! If you mean, First Meeting, then anywhere public is good, for a soda, drink, meal, whatever. However, would prefer maybe just having a cup of tea/coffee/wine on the beach watching the sun come up or going down. Or maybe a picnic, going to a park, walking the OC boardwalk, or just meeting in a quiet place. Since its not a DATE, then going DUTCH is fine by me.First REAL DATE could be anywhere and doing anything we are both happy with. We can decide together. **If you are looking for sex on the first date, move on to the next profile. Relationships are special to me. I am NOT into casual sex and I hope my date will think the same. ****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

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