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Maria, 29
United States, California, Thousand Oaks

Offline, last seen Sat, 21 Mar 2026 02:29:10

About Me

Knock, knock. Is anyone out there?! Why is it so easy for some people to find love, yet so difficult for others? Isn't that why we are all here?First off, I give up on trying to reach out to others to say a simple hello. If you view my profile and are interested, please message me because I'm sick of being ***, which is rather rude. With that being said...I work full-time and go to school part-time (my choice). I truly want to make something of myself...I have found on this website, one of the first things I get asked is what I like to do. First of all, I'm a HUGE football fan! I love the Ravens! Get me talking football, and I'm happy! I hate the pictures of me on here, but I want to weed out guys only looking for looks. I don't have the typical supermodel body that most guys tend to be looking for, but I have a huge heart! If all you are interested in is looks, keep looking, because I'm not interested in something that won't last. At the end of the day, looks aren't everything, they are just a small fraction of a successful relationship. I love spending time with friends and family. I also enjoy cooking, putting smiles on loved ones faces, just enjoying the little things in life. I enjoy activities outdoors when I have the time to do so. I'm the type of person that can find something fun in everything I do, which I found to be a very good characteristic to have. As a person, I believe I am caring, fun to be around, and honest. I have had to deal with some extremely hard times in my life that most people don't have to until later in life. It has both helped and hurt me in various ways, but it has made me who I am today. I just want to share happiness with someone who has the same wishes. Is that too much to ask?Who am I looking for? I am looking for long term, no games. Someone who has a great personality, is respectful, dependable, open and honest, trustworthy, and has goals for their near and far future. It's quite silly that I have to clarify this, but please have a car as well as a job...we are all adults now and I'm not a human bank nor a sugar momma. I've noticed on this site that people will hide the truth from their profile. All I ask is for someone to be up front and 100% honest with me from the beginning. Why start something out on a lie?If you think we have similar interests and are interested/would like to know more....please don't be shy and just message me! You never know until you try! But please be genuinely interested in getting to know me and meet me if you message me...I'm getting really tired of having small talk with people who have no desire to get to know me. I'm looking for a real relationship. Told you I was honest!Important note: How are you gonna note in your profile that you want a female with her sh*t together when you don't even have your own sh*t together? Really?Something we can decide on together, any place where we can get to know each other better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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