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Janie, 61
United States, Arizona, Scottsdale

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Hi, I'm Sandy. I'm a Registered Nurse and I own my own business. I have four chidren, all grown and out of the house. I am beginning to see just how lonely one can be if you are used to kids around. Don't get me wrong, it is nice at times to have quiet, but I am a people person, I love to talk but more importantly, I love to listen.I am looking for all of the qualities in a man that I believe that I have and that are important to me. I believe in honesty. I believe in fidelity. I believe that if you are in a committed relationship then that person is the only one in your life. I believe that if you start feeling that she's not, you should end it first before you move on to the next one. It is the right thing to do and you can't find happiness at the expense of someone else.I want a best friend, and I know everyone says that but it's true. When something happens in your life or in the course of your day, whether good or bad, it's the person you think of first to call, to reach out to when you're happy, sad, lonely, depressed, or just want someone to hold you and tell you everything will be alright.I believe in doing something in your life that makes a difference, that leaves a mark, that touches someone's life, that is why i became a nurse. However being a nurse has hurt me in my private life. A nurse has a personality that wants to fix people, things, etc. Some people cannot be "fixed", that's when you get hurt because you feel that you have failed. I have been divorced for 15 years and devoted my life to my kids, grandkids, and my business. I would love to find a man who could love me for who I am, both inside and out. I would love to find a man that loves others, not just himself, a man that is giving for I am very giving.Absolutely no one is perfect in this world, certainly i am not. But I have worked hard for everything that I have and have tried to be the best person i could. My mom passed away last year. She had become my best friend. I took care of her for a year before she died, I miss her so much, but I believe that she would want me to find the happiness in the love and companionship of a man. I'm not a skinny model, I am an average sized 5'5" blonde hair, blue eyes, and very much don't look my age. Most men my age look so much older, well, most women my age look so much older. My oldest son won't even go out with me anywhere anymore, our last outing they asked what his "date" would like to order. Well, that was the end of our evening, lol.I would love to travel someday with that special someone, I love the country and at night enjoy just looking at stars. I love kids, animals, and have a soft spot in my heart for kids and adults with special needs. Their innocense is humbling to me and that is why it gives me great pleasure to work with them. I want a man in my life with a big heart because mine is open and loving. At times I think I'm going to give up on this site, then I think that I am a nice person, surely there is someone as nice on here looking also.Please, if you just are out there to see how many women you can have dates with, don't contact me. If you are not serious and are just on here for something to do, please don't contact me. If you have a history of telling women how much you like them after you take them out, and then never calling them again...please don't contact me. But if you are honest, sincere, with a big heart who is looking for someone special, let's talk.Ok, I have hidden my profile for awhile, I've learned a few things on here. So far, most guys I have had experience with here seem to want one thing, they are "serial" daters, really not looking for a long-term relationship. They want a skinny "super-model" type and the funny thing is most of them are fat and bald. They want a woman who wants to have sex all of the time, even on the first date! Whatever happened to falling in love first?? I am not skinny, I have curves. I have a picture on here that is two years old, haven't changed much. Guess I could put on another one, most are on my phone and would be happy to send them to the right guy. I can't relocate, have a business and am building a house. So if you can't relocate I'll be happy to be your friend, just can't be much more. You must love people, have a big heart and be willing to share it, not only with me but my wonderful family. If you are interested.....contact me. I don't think you will be disappointed, but you need to be realllllly special!!I hope you like my profile and it says something special to you. SandyUpdate on ***I've decided after thinking a long time on this that I would list the things that I really want in a mate and if anyone out there sees themselves in my list, please contact me.First, I'm not looking for a model, just an average guy that considers himself attractive Body type really doesn't matter, just not horribly obese cause that isn't healthy. I'm looking for someone that believes in God but he doesn't have to go to church every Sunday. He must have conservative thinking politically. It's just a part of who I am and I would prefer not to be arguing with someone all the time. He must be honest, faithful, and care about others. He must have a sense of humor. Please, no drama. I've had enough of that. Finally he must be able to love others, not just himself. He must be open-minded, caring, and compassionate and giving towards others. There, that's what I'm looking for!i don't think it matters what you do on a first date. if you enjoy that person's company you could be anywhere and doing anything. i love the mountains, the beach, walking in the woods, going out to dinners, movies, horseback riding, and looking at stars.

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    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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