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Elsie, 54
United States, California, El Monte

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I WOULD PREFER ANYONE WHO CONTACTS ME TO A HAVE PICTURE OF THEMSELVES. IF YOU DONT HAVE ONE ON YOUR PROFILE I WONT BE IN TOUCH NOR REPLY TO ANY OF YOUR MESSAGES. PLEASE DONT WASTE YOUR TIME BY GETTING IN TOUCH,IF YOU HAVE CASUAL DATING /NO COMMITMENTS, on your profile..I WONT BE IN TOUCH sorry I love listening to music... I love Soul, R&B, Reggie, Motown, all sorts really not into heavy metal, Rap or hardcore..musicIm looking for my best friend.. my soul mates... but your very good at hiding behind those big rocks... come on out.. im only 4ft 10.... I cant see over them... If you tell the truth.........you never have to remember what it was you've said....I would like to find a half decent man, to have a laugh with, hopefully grow older with, saying im 54yrs old now I love a white wine n soda.. if the shops haven't ran out of it as everyone stays in with a bottle or more on here...by god the beach and country side is fully booked too..lolAnd now being serious..... I was reaching the stage where I considered placing myself in the "unsuitable for re-homing" box and resigning myself to just going it alone. That isn't ideal and its nice to be special to someone, I've been single for 14yrs now.. purely out of MY CHOICE, But I think I would like to grow older with someone who could become special to me... Please No picture's of ur pecker's or butt... please put it away... No to webcam s.e.x im not interested.... get a life... I would like to get to know you for who you are... mens bits are NOT very nice to look at if i dont know you.... I would like to meet a nice genuine honest man. Someone to come home too.., I hate arguing, cannot do with a totally jealous guy, a little bit is fine, shows you care BEING OTT I would walk away... thats a lie I would run a millions miles away never to meet again......I am very very cheeky witty person.. who loves to laugh with you.. Be brave and contact me I dont bite..... well not too hard IF YOU ARE A SMOKER I WILL ***,, I MEAN ***, SORRY I WONT REPLY NO THANK YOU, I CANT STRESS IT ENOUGH.. there has to be a man whom doesn't smoke out there for me.. please don't waste my time by getting in touch...NO...... to married men.. NO....... to just being bed buddies or no commitments,,. please don't BOTHER ME NOT..... into one night's stand... NOT..... wanting to be a friend with benefits.. that means when YOUR NOT looking for commitments again... do not bother/annoy meNOT..... into sharing you.. I'm faithful so I expect you to be too.... I dislike lier's tooI DONT DO CAM SEX SO DONT ASK ME..... go away and annoy someone elseMany thanks for reading this far,,,, take care, keep safe, and lots of luck too,If you want to hide behind a hat and sunglasses.... don't contact me sorry I wont answer any messages from you..(you know who you are)We could meet up during a Saturday lunch time (due to my child being 15yrs and work committments)... have a cup of tea..I dont drink coffee.....As I normally have to collect my son from the Sage, plus you have the excuse to leave soon after... if were not for each other..... no awkwardness then.... I would be shy at first.. untll I got to know you... I tend to smile a lot.. which bugs my mates..only because they would end up smiling with me...xxx PLEASE NOTE MY PHOTO'S HAVE THE DATE ON THEM OF WHEN THEY WERE TAKEN..SO THEY ARE UP TODATE, NOT 20YRS AGO

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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