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Etta, 57

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About Me

Hi there...Hope you are having a great day. I am a very happy, secure, confident woman. I have put a lot into my life to achieve where I am. I am looking for someone who is also very secure and confident. I am looking for a relationship that is based on inter-dependence and not dependence. One that allows for space, but on the other hand after a long day of work I want to get in my car and feel as if I can't wait to get home to see my best friend and lover! Not just in the beginning, but after years of time together. Everyone always says that a good relationship requires soooo much work and effort! If it's such an effort and a struggle, you may just be with the wrong person! I think that when you find the right person the relationship is like a puzzle and just fits nicely together. Yes, you have to be creative and look for ways to maintain that kind of romance, but if it's the right person and you both have respect, love and admiration for one another, you will want to do things for each other that make the other person feel special. It's important to me that my mate take good care of himself - that he exercises and cares about the way he looks and feels, that he is stable and dependable. I work as a health educator in corporate health and wellness, still do some personal training and still teach at a local YMCA so I am very passionate about staying active and fit! I am also a triathlete and enjoy both the training and the competition. If you are a sedentary person, I can tell you that this will not work out. I am very high energy and although you don't have to be a triathlete I am looking for the same in my partner. I also want someone who loves to laugh and have fun! Life is way too serious and we all need to let go once and while and just enjoy! Love a cozy night on the couch with wine and a movie too....so I am balanced! lol!Btw, I would like to share one more thing. I currently have a house I would like to sell in East Stroudsburg, PA. However, the market has made this difficult to achieve. Hoping this spring there will be an opportunity. So I live in Rockaway during the week and go the PA on weekends. I just want to make sure that is not a problem if you have an interest! Since I am in Rockaway more days of the week, I choose to use that to identify my location.For a first date I think it would depend on how well I got to know the person through e-mails and phone calls prior to the date. It could just be getting together for coffee or going out for a nice dinner. After that I really enjoy dates that include some kind of activity...hiking and dinner or lunch, movie and dinner, biking, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 22-42

    I don't want to be the other half of your soul. I want to be the one who reminds you that you're already whole.Gents, keep in mind that a man's money will never excite an independent woman.I'm an open book- pick a chapter.Dates should be fun, and full of conversation. So somewhere that we can talk about something that we experience together, a concert, an exhibit, or even a sporting event. Awkward silences are never appreciated, and I hate feeling like I have to fill them. Comedy clubs and Billiards are great ideas. You could always surprise me! I'm kind of old fashioned.

  • Brittney

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-64

    I'm not like most other women...I'm a girly girl and a tomboy all in one! I'm just as comfortable in an evening gown as I am in a pair of Levis. I'm just as comfortable in the business world as I am in the kitchen. In church as I am in a club. I love to watch sports and am a grate fan!! I love being spoiled so I love to spoil. I love adventure and laughter, lots and lots of laughter. What I seek first and foremost is the Truth (always). For the Truth never hurts as much as a lie. Then respect, treat me the way you would want to be treated. It's that Simple!!Any place we can talk, coffee, a bit to eat, a walk. Just time to get to know each other.

  • Olivia

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-45

    I went to see a medium the other week, she told me there is a man I have not met yet that's going to find me real soon with or had health problems. Hmmmm not sure how I felt about that but hey if you've got one leg and are a nice guy then give me a inbox.Ill be your crutch.Aactually I do like dog walking so maybe one arm or half an ear only ;)I lovvve to laugh....live at the hammersmith or somewhere like that would be a great date ;)Im very Honest and not into games. If im with someone im with someone, really don't understand the need for cheating??I love horse racing and I've even started going to the gym 3 times a week ( get Me )Im well travelled but there is still quite a few places I'd like to visit that's on the old bucket list. Really want to drive down route 66 but thinking that maybe one of my mid life crisis as its not a quick trip.Really can't stand shallow people. Its not all about the photos. Although I will say please refine from messaging Me if your profile picture is of you holding a fish or standing in your bathroom naked (what's that all about? )Not looking for complicated, married or a one night standIf you know how to have fun and don't take yourself to seriously then Just drop me a line if you want to know me better!oooow and I must add I do love a belly not into these ripped guys.Coffee but if all you do is talk about your ex the whole time there wont be a second date

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