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Etta, 57

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About Me

Hi there...Hope you are having a great day. I am a very happy, secure, confident woman. I have put a lot into my life to achieve where I am. I am looking for someone who is also very secure and confident. I am looking for a relationship that is based on inter-dependence and not dependence. One that allows for space, but on the other hand after a long day of work I want to get in my car and feel as if I can't wait to get home to see my best friend and lover! Not just in the beginning, but after years of time together. Everyone always says that a good relationship requires soooo much work and effort! If it's such an effort and a struggle, you may just be with the wrong person! I think that when you find the right person the relationship is like a puzzle and just fits nicely together. Yes, you have to be creative and look for ways to maintain that kind of romance, but if it's the right person and you both have respect, love and admiration for one another, you will want to do things for each other that make the other person feel special. It's important to me that my mate take good care of himself - that he exercises and cares about the way he looks and feels, that he is stable and dependable. I work as a health educator in corporate health and wellness, still do some personal training and still teach at a local YMCA so I am very passionate about staying active and fit! I am also a triathlete and enjoy both the training and the competition. If you are a sedentary person, I can tell you that this will not work out. I am very high energy and although you don't have to be a triathlete I am looking for the same in my partner. I also want someone who loves to laugh and have fun! Life is way too serious and we all need to let go once and while and just enjoy! Love a cozy night on the couch with wine and a movie too....so I am balanced! lol!Btw, I would like to share one more thing. I currently have a house I would like to sell in East Stroudsburg, PA. However, the market has made this difficult to achieve. Hoping this spring there will be an opportunity. So I live in Rockaway during the week and go the PA on weekends. I just want to make sure that is not a problem if you have an interest! Since I am in Rockaway more days of the week, I choose to use that to identify my location.For a first date I think it would depend on how well I got to know the person through e-mails and phone calls prior to the date. It could just be getting together for coffee or going out for a nice dinner. After that I really enjoy dates that include some kind of activity...hiking and dinner or lunch, movie and dinner, biking, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Shell

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    Woman. 59 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-54

    My kids are grown and out on their own, it's time for me now. I love simple pleasures....reading, gardening, enjoying the sun on my face during a nice walk. Love to explore new places, people watch and always willing to try something new....life is about the experience. I tend to be kind of goofy and a bit of a geek. Would rather watch a sci fi or action movie than a chick flick. Looking for the yin to my yang. I am looking to find my life partner... If that is not your intent.... Please pass me by. I am not interested in a FWB situation. Good luck. :-)

  • Tonya

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-64

    So many fun events coming up now I would love to spend some of those with somebody special that is fun the weather here is beautiful, I just wish I had someone to share it with. Picnics, walking hand and hand, how nice. I like a man who has passion in his heart and romance in his eyes. I look for a man who has HUMOR, COMPASSION, HONESTY, INTERGITY, LOYALITY, FAITHFULNESS, and who is a good communicator.!!!!!!!!!I am not a perfect person by any means. I still have work to do. With God’s help, I am striving to be the best person I can be. If you attend church That's a plus. But not a deal breaker. I love to travel, mostly to warmer locations enjoy football. No I love it. 49 ers Rock I love motorcycle rides so if you have a motorcycle I say let's go!!!! . love to watch UNR games. Aces games to. i much rather hang out in my jeans , but this girl can dress up for a night out on the town.. i can be sexy and i love to be Romanced. I'm happy, secure easy-going who can find pleasure in the little things in life. I'm playful, kooky and look much younger than my age. I take each moment in as it comes and can appreciate little bumps in the road as a learning experience. I am honest to a fault, smart, fun, gentle, forgiving, extremely curious with a dose of goofball i have one son whom is most important to me..i love him and enjoy every moment watching him grow up into the fine young man he has become.. it would be wonderful to meet a man who shares the same interests and goals in life as I do. I love to cook and create or dine out, get together with friends explore new area's,love to go camping.. just love to be in the outdoors. or just hang out with all my friends. and have bbq's at whoever's house.. I love good wine tasting. and traveling to different winery's in California. Favorite spots Pismo Beach California Murphys California wine tasting Napa Valley. Just to mention a fewfirst dates always feel like an interview and we all hate interviews LOL I guess a nice dinner and a few drinks would be very relaxing atmosphere for a first date. If you have a motorcycle. I love going for rides

  • Katharine

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-63

    If Sweet Home Alabama is your favorite song...We might not get along...If your favorite places to eat are the Waffle, Piccadilly, or Cracker Barrel...We might not get along...If you are a Narcissist and everything that goes along with that...We def will get along...If you don't get along with your Mother...It's probably not a good thing....If you can't laugh and joke at the dumbest thing...It's not going to work...If you've never left Georgia (or whatever your home state might be) that might not work, unless you've just won the lottery and need a traveling partner...I'll make an exception....Have Pass Port...Will travel...If your not into grilling, or BBQing and shooting the sh*ton the back deck with a beer in your hand...Not gonna work...If you have a problem sneaking in the back way at festivals, rally, concerts...You can pay, I'm still sneaking in...If you don't know what hummus is...Well, you see how it's working...If you are a lottery addict...Not good...Your not going to win the big bucks..give it up and save your money...Now, if you've already won...That's a different story...Call Me...If you are a Bible Thump-er and think God is watching your every move...That's def NoNo...I guess I could go on forever...but, as we all know not everything is as it seems....I learned a lot about that one with the last little relationship I tried to nurture....So, if you live in some fantasy land where you think you are God and God is looking for a Barbie Doll, It's not gonna work...Bummer though...hanging out with God might be nice but the reality is...There is no God...Now of course, there are Princesses...and some of them like to work in the yard, mow the lawn, weed eat, grill, boat, lay around the pool, cook delicious meals from scratch...laugh and giggle with friends...listen to current music...Not just the old stuff from the 60's and 70's..Just be real...I don't care...Something that involves laughter and beer...or wine..and wings...yeah, wings would be good...or Fago de Chao...That would be good too..

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