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Kate, 41
United States, California, Elk Grove

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About Me

I am a 41 year old woman with four children...two girls and twin boys. My oldest daughter lives here in Mobile. My three youngest are living with their father in Germany about to be back in GA where they live after being gone for 3 years. I get them as much as possible. I have been divorced for about 7 years now. Been trying the dating thing for about 6 years. Been in a couple of relationships but nothing that has stuck. It's not so much fun. I love going out for drinks and dancing. I also can stay at home and watch movies. I also love to go to the beach. I like tattoos. I have five of my own. My nose, belly button and ears are pierced. I'm somewhat of a romantic and love it when a guy is too!!! I'm really easy going most of the time...of course everyone can get pissed. I've been told that I am one of the coolest chicks by many guys friends and others. I don't get offended easily. I have a great sense of humor! I love to laugh. I do it often. I also love to make others laugh. I love sarcasm!! I use foul language often! Someone with some intelligence is definitely a plus!!! If you ask my friends I believe they would tell you that I am a very considerate, loyal and a true smartass. I'll go out of my way to help someone if I can (if I like that person). I am a slender, athletic built woman. Looking to find a good guy that isn't into playing games. I love honesty in people especially if I'm going to date them!! I hate...I mean HATE...to be lied to about anything!!!! Even if what is being told to me might piss me off or hurt me I still would like to know the truth!! You can't have any kind of relationship if lies are involved! You have to trust someone to share things with them!!! Oh, and I'm so not high maintenance! I tend to like guys on the thinner, more athletic side. I tend to be attracted to guys that are on the more toned side. Not real picky on hair color. There does have to be some sort of physical attraction though! I don't tend to be very shy! I am a very loyal and caring person. I like a very broad range in music from big band, pop, 80's hair band, a little country, jazz, R&B, etc.. I also have a large range in the kind of movies that I like (huge movie buff)...Mystery, Comedy, Action, Horror, Old black and white movies, etc... Some of my favorites are Sixteen Candles, Weird Science, Superbad, I Love You Man, Transformers (all), HUGE FAN of The Boondock Saints (both) , Smokin Aces, The Notebook, The Goonies, Law Abiding Citizen, The Strangers, Step Up (all),I can't help it but I love dance movies, Pitch Perfect, Wedding Crashers, Jersey Boys, Friday, Lord Of The Rings (all), The Hobbit (all), Stick It, How To Train Your Dragon, Going the Distance,Megamind, Fault In Our Stars, RockNRolla, Bridesmaids, pretty much all kid movies, and many, many, many more. If you are interested...leave me a message and we can see how it goes from there. If not...good luck on finding what or who you want.*** Hint (Hey if you message me and I don't reply...it's my nice way of saying I'm not interested...just see no reason to reply and carry on a conversation with someone if I know I'm not interested. I'm really not a mean hearted b#$%h or think I'm better than anyone just don't want to waste my time or anyone else's...or lead someone to believe I'm interested when I'm not). I appreciate you taking the time to read my long ass profile!**ps...if ya send me a message that says something like "Hi, Sexy" or "You are so sexy" I'm probably not going to reply...thanks!**pss...although I think it's nice that I seem like a cool chic to guys on here (which I am)...I do think it's a little strange if you send me your number in the first message you send me!! Just sayin...Go out for drinks maybe go listen to a band. Get together for coffee. I could also go out dancing. Hangin out, playing pool. Go bowling. Something along those lines. Up for suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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