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Young, 53

United States, California, Carlsbad

Offline, last seen Fri, 14 Aug 2026 02:08:34

About Me

I am a real woman.Sharp mind, soft body, slightly cynical but with an optimistic streak. Can be a bit of a handful (I call it passion) so I get on well with peeps who are not easily intimidated. I love cooking, literature, film and travel. I enjoy developing property and planning interior design. Quite good at shopping both a skip hound and an auction-goer. I am looking for an Alpha Male with old fashioned values and a modern outlook. Manners are important. Charm, wit and charisma are good. Energy, drive and confidence are a bonus. I would be fibbing if I said looks weren't important, but I am more attracted by personal style than even features and a six pack. I am attracted to self-assured, single men so if you are too shy to post a photo or are worried that someone you know will see that you are on a dating site then I wish you all the very best of luck .....with someone else Footnote: Photos: Guys, what is it about posing in a swimwear, singlet or football strip or with a large glass of beer that is supposed to make us want to meet you? Likewise the motorbike/car/boat. Women dont respond to these visual cues the way your mates might. I want to date a Man not his toys ;-)Words: I can be wooed with words, Hi doesn't cut it. Many men on here describe themselves as "genuine, honest, sincere" and "tactile", "love cuddles", "don't bite" and "ask for more info" zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz If I haven't scared you off I would love to hear from you.For the first meeting I would go for a low-commitment cup of coffee in a relaxed environment where we can hear ourselves speak but others can't eavesdrop.If that works and there is some chemistry I'd be happy to follow up with a Proper Date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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