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Brenda, 34
United States, North Carolina, Cary

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About Me

About me huh.. I'm looking for friends at first and see where that takes us. Im a full time mother to three awesome kids which are most important to me and keep me motivated everyday. I also work full time at a job that i dont mind but intend to further my education in the next year to better myself and for my children. I enjoy a variety of activities which include playing pool, darts, family, friends, going for drives, going to the beach, hiking, swimming, fishing, camping etc, etc, etc. Taking my kids out and trying new things as a family is also something I enjoy a lot. I am looking for someone that can be my best friend before anything else. I believe it's important to have a great friendship to make a relationship work. I want someone who knows what they want all around and knows how to take a good joke. I enjoy my level of sarcasm but also know that there is a place and time for everything and know when it's time to be serious. I hope to find someone that I can be myself around and can talk to about anything. My ideal partner will know how to hold a conversation, make me laugh, be open minded and non-judgmental. Well, I could go on and on but then what would we talk about later?I think a first date is the perfect time to talk and get to know one another. With tht being said, I would most likely suggest dinner and a walk or something that allows us a chance to talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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Gardening
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