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Mary, 56
United States, California, Visalia

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About Me

My friends described me as attractive, confident, friendly, with great sense of humour. So they must be right! I can cook, ski and dance but not necessarily in that order. I have lots of energy, a big heart, just need somone to share it all with.I hope to find the man of my dreams, A man who wants to be with me, because of who I am. Love me, the way I am, and allow me to love them back.Tall dark and handsome comes to mind, but looks aren't everything. I enjoy dancing ceroc , so if you'd fancy giving me a spin on the dance floor that would be fantastic, but its not a problem if you have two left feet and prefer not too. Sharing great times together is important, either a walk in the park, drink in the pub, watching a movie or sharing a romantic candle lit dinner. or even an impromptu weekend away.I'm not a football fan.(can't stand the game)so please don't ask me to stay in and watch the footie, but a good Rugby International match is always worth watching. I want to meet someone who takes care of his health and body,and isn't a couch potato.My children have almost flown the nest, which gives me much more personal freedom, although my job can be very demanding, So you need to be understanding and patient.A sense of Humour would be great. I love laughing and having a good time.Update... Guys if you don't want to date an older woman then please say so! as they say age is only a number.I'd like to arrange to meet in a mutually agreed venue,somewhere 12 way between us, thats only fair! find a nice pub or cafe where we can chat over a cappacino, Oh.... ok, a glass of wine.. all being well, then arrange where to meet next ( fingers crossed )UPDATE - if you have no intention of turning up for a date don't arrange one

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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