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Selma, 63

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aren't either of the above, you'd better have a huge bank account. There! I've said it! I don't want to be your mommy, I don't want to make up for whatever your ex did or didn't do. Pretend we both just hit the earth and go from there the first time we meet. Yes, I've had a great life traveling and teaching around the world. BUT, life isn't over. Yes, I live way out on the eastern plains of Colorado until I finish my house and sell it and then I'm up for anywhere in the world. I like to keep fit and I like to look pretty - I'm a girly girl. I like intelligent, tallish men who have a sense of humor or at least look at the world with a bit of amusement. The only thing you don't want to talk about with me is politics (that is an exclamation mark from my friends). I'm opinionated but I recognize that it really doesn't matter. Be honest and be yourself. Especially be honest.Is physical appearance important? It's important to everyone. However when someone becomes my friend the proverbial fairy godmother touches them with her magic wand and *** becomes Cinderella and frog becomes prince. Simply put, all my friends are beautiful.The photos are from my travels around the world teaching English. Lucky life I've lived, isn't it!Just one other thing, I hope you dance. Being back after such a long time away is like visiting a foreign country . . . so give me a minute. IT'S GREAT TO BE BACK! Isn't it the pits trying to talk about yourself while covering all the bases and still leaving a little mystery! You're either going to take that chance or not. Best of luck either way. OK., one MORE thing, I swear! If you're seriously looking for a woman, why in the world would you list 14 musts and must nots???? Just asking.A perfect first date would be dancing if we knew each other. If it's that first blind date, a place with an easy escape (smile). I think first dates should be easy on both so walking around and talking would be fine as well as coffee and some time to size each other up. No pressure there! I think after chatting we'd work it out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 57 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-67

    Hi there...Hope you are having a great day. I am a very happy, secure, confident woman. I have put a lot into my life to achieve where I am. I am looking for someone who is also very secure and confident. I am looking for a relationship that is based on inter-dependence and not dependence. One that allows for space, but on the other hand after a long day of work I want to get in my car and feel as if I can't wait to get home to see my best friend and lover! Not just in the beginning, but after years of time together. Everyone always says that a good relationship requires soooo much work and effort! If it's such an effort and a struggle, you may just be with the wrong person! I think that when you find the right person the relationship is like a puzzle and just fits nicely together. Yes, you have to be creative and look for ways to maintain that kind of romance, but if it's the right person and you both have respect, love and admiration for one another, you will want to do things for each other that make the other person feel special. It's important to me that my mate take good care of himself - that he exercises and cares about the way he looks and feels, that he is stable and dependable. I work as a health educator in corporate health and wellness, still do some personal training and still teach at a local YMCA so I am very passionate about staying active and fit! I am also a triathlete and enjoy both the training and the competition. If you are a sedentary person, I can tell you that this will not work out. I am very high energy and although you don't have to be a triathlete I am looking for the same in my partner. I also want someone who loves to laugh and have fun! Life is way too serious and we all need to let go once and while and just enjoy! Love a cozy night on the couch with wine and a movie too....so I am balanced! lol!Btw, I would like to share one more thing. I currently have a house I would like to sell in East Stroudsburg, PA. However, the market has made this difficult to achieve. Hoping this spring there will be an opportunity. So I live in Rockaway during the week and go the PA on weekends. I just want to make sure that is not a problem if you have an interest! Since I am in Rockaway more days of the week, I choose to use that to identify my location.For a first date I think it would depend on how well I got to know the person through e-mails and phone calls prior to the date. It could just be getting together for coffee or going out for a nice dinner. After that I really enjoy dates that include some kind of activity...hiking and dinner or lunch, movie and dinner, biking, etc.

  • Ladonna

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    Woman. 71 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 61-81

    I'd like to meet an honest man who belives in Jesus, and perhaps is an animal lover also. I like to walk, go to fishing on riverbanks, go to restaurants, flea mkts., day trips. I work at home part time. I am fairly new to NC, from Annapolis, MD. Moved to Kinston, NC almost six years ago. I am a real homebody, love to just stay home. Love to see it rain on my flowers and grass. I love the ocean!I'd like to meet in a restaurant, and just talk, maybe have coffee or soda and see if we click.

  • Sheryl

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-47

    My hobbies include camping and hanging out with friends and family. One of my goals is to travel to as may places as I can. Things about me, well I am a MSU fan, I love hanging out with my family and friends.First date, I would like to meet in a public place, and grab a bite to eat.

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