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Vanessa, 49

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About Me

I'm at a place in my life where I'm looking for companionship. How each of us defines that is as unique as we are as individuals. I know most people dislike us 'separated' folks, and I can appreciate and respect that, but don't judge too harshly. I know plenty of people who say they are 'single' and are very married to their spouses in every sense of that word. I'm legally separated, I have a great relationship with my estranged spouse, but I do not love him anymore and we both have been living separate lives for over 12 plus yrs.Pretty simple stuff. I got my life in order and I have my priorities straight. My kids need me, but I make sure I make me time---and for the right person, it's well worth it. I'm a good person who wants to find someone who wants a decent person to fill the gaps in our hectic lives. The only way to truly get to know a person is to ask questions and meet them. Be fearless...say 'hello'---you have nothing to lose and a lot to gain...a great friend and person in me. Life is meant to be lived and while I'm doing that I'm also hoping to find someone to add to my life...maybe that person is you.P.S. I know how to spell fun....and I know what fun means....but if your idea of FUN begins with S and ends with X skip on by. I'm fat not desperate.P.S.S. I am an eternal optimist and know that there is someone for everyone. At this point in my life I know exactly what I want--maybe that is YOU. Happy Fishing Folks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Elvira

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-65

    Revamped again as at 5th June ***Enjoy! Well there seems to be an abundance of men here who are just looking for a normal girl who is fun to be with ! So this should be easy peasy, though obviously, I will need to fulfil a few other minor requirements! Such as:1) Look good in tight jeans or lycra. 2) Be a bit younger (well, about 30 years) young enough at least to make you look like an ancient old perv.3) Have no past whatsoever, or ex's4) not mind that your kids are your world and will still be when they are in their late 40's5) like watching DVD's and drinking copious amounts of red wine while cwtched up to you on the sofa. 6) be extremely impressed that you can get round a golf course or run a mile or two and not mind you spending half your life in the gym.......Oooooops sorry, I probably meant the pub judging by all the beer bellies acquired in the gym on here. I could at a push qualify on possibly 2 of those requirements!So if your not too fussy or ambitious ping me a message.!I really don't mind if your profile had your age 49 for the last ***years.I don't mind if you are a chain smoker claiming to be an occasional one, I gave up 4 years back just for the hell of it so that ashtray full of butt ends in the background of your pic, does not put me off at all! If your photos are a little out of date, don't worry, it's useful to know what you looked like 15 years ago. In fact the ones of me are of what I will look like 15 years from now so that gives you some idea of what you are in for and also gives us the magic 30 years age gap! ;-) perfecto! I don't mind if you said you were slim or athletic meaning once upon a time.If you live in a badly furnished rented bedsit in Newport, how fabulous?If your ex wife is an alcoholic, stalking, nutjob, that's fine too! If your kids are in their 30's unemployed and still living at home I won't mind that at all.tattoos ? Can't wait for you to show me all of them! I don't even mind the occasional drinker who has ten photos on his profile and just to show what a jolly fun chappie he really is he has a glass, can or bottle in his hand in every one of them! As you can see, I am a very understanding woman who at least still looks passable in tight jeans! And I am really 15 year younger than my photos. Been known to drink the odd glass of red and I am definitely "fun" to be with as for "normal" well why don't we meet up and you can find out for yourself. If you believe any if the above, don't call me, I'll call you x Seriously, not really sure what I am looking for or even if I want a relationship, I guess if it happens, it happens, and I will know it if I find it, if not I may have made another friend. Not looking to complicate a great single life with rules and expectations.Who knows ? polar bear wrestling in Alaska ? Elephant treking in Nepal? Lion taming course? something out of the ordinary, afterall, we can't go to the beach as there are too many other people there on first dates (allegedly) and all the pubs and coffee shops are probably full too if all the people on here are seriously dating....... I'm kidding, I quite like the beach but deserted ones with a howling wind and crashing gigantic waves ! But a coffee or a drink and a chat would be fine too !

  • Kerri

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    Woman. 64 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 54-74

    Hi I'm a widow trying this thing again being alone is a hrd road to travel I'm a one woman man don't belive in cheating looking for that special guy are you out there I enjoy spoiling my man from coffe in bed in the mornings to a deep massage in the evening after a long hard day love campeing under the stars and smelling the fresh smell of coffee perking outsidego out to romantic dinner whith wine and candlelite talk and learn more about each other maybe walk in moonlite are a cup of java will do for starters

  • Lela

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-48

    Basically, I'm just looking for someone to hang out with and after that dating/serious relationship. Friendships are very important to me. Someday I want to RV around the nation and then visit Europe.I love snowmobiling, my motorcycle, it is an automatic motorcycle. LOVE my truck, and am rather independent. I consider Sturgis Rally week to be nothing but fun, my friends and I love it, we camp and ride as a large group. I have a great sense of humor, I am very ambitious and driven.I am often mistakened to be at least 8 years younger looking than my chronological age, which is great, because life cannot last long enough. Laughter keeps me young.I am very connected to my family, and I hope to stay close to them. I have a great relationship with all of my nephews and new neice. I spoil them, and send them back to their parents full of sugar, what could be better? lol I really enjoy the energy and curiosity of kids of all ages. I work both in town, and on my days off, on my parent's farm. My favorite artists/music are The David Crowder Band, Third Day, quite a bit of 80's and 90's dance music,ABBA, Patsy Cline, Big Band music, and when I'm trying to create projects classic masterpieces by Bach and Beethoven, etc. The only music I really am not into is rap.First dates, are generally a coffee date for me. Coffee can always lead to a second date, or just seems a safe way to get to know people. Some of my favorite college memories involve coffee, board games and a lot of laughter, and the wee hours of the morning.

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