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Raquel, 34

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About Me

Recent graduate with my second degree. Currently working two jobs, so my free time is a bit limited. If I had to describe online dating in one word it would be......wait for it.....douchepocalypse. I have never been married and I do not have kids. I do not want kids, so please don't try to convince me that I will if I "find the right guy" while implying you're the right guy. It's rude and disrespectful.I tend to be very blunt, and am often misunderstood. Most people will say they want the truth and then get mad or run away when they get it. For me, I'm either completely honest or I shut down meaningful communication completely, I don't seem to have a happy medium. I also have a tendency to be difficult just to see how people are going to react. A person's reaction when they don't get their way can tell you a lot about a person. I also have a tendency to call people out on their crap, which people absolutely hate, and I have trouble with the whole notion of using kid gloves to deal with other adults. They're adults.I think it's stupid that people judge others so harshly for having the same issues we all have.I have a knack for injuring myself on a semi regular basis. I'm not accident prone, inanimate objects just like to pick on meFirst time meetings must be in public. This is non-negotiable. I consider it a meet 'n greet, not a date, and I pay for myself. I consider it disrespectful when I've made my feelings/wishes on this matter known and a guy *** Dating to me is just that, dating. Going on dates. And no, it's not for free food, booze, etc. I can pay for myself. It's about going out on dates, spending time together getting to know one another. It's a time investment into the other person, and may require you to inconvenience yourself a bit by showering and wearing nice clothes and actually going out in public *gasp*. If you're not willing to date, don't bother talking to me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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