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Wendy, 45

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About Me

Forget Romeo & Juliet. I want a love like ...Gomez and Morticia :)I am the hopeless romantic that has had her heart broken many times. Looking to get back into the saddle again and look for my cowboy / hero/ knight so that I can be your cowgal / diva / damsel ;)Don't get me wrong. I can break, ride and saddle my own horse. I can come to my own rescue and have have slayed and tamed many my own dragons. Just tired of doing so alone.**I'm the type who's generally considered the go-to girl when there's a problem. I'm your typical down-to-earth woman.I am also a problem solver. Which is why I am the go to person. See how that works? Yeah Lucky me LOL**I treat people with respect/honesty.The saying goes "If you don't want/like the truth, DON'T ask the question." **I have 2 children.One is only 8 and the other is 14. My daughter lives with me and my son is with God**I do need some me time with another adult that needs to fill their caffeine addiction and just get the giggles out. In my free time I like to spend time in the outdoors, volunteering with friends, and I have just starting to take up the hobby of home repair.It sounds better when I call it a hobby trust me:)LOL** When I'm out driving I like having a friend along. I like my friends to be honest. Everything else flows from there. I tend to be the stable, family-oriented lady in the group. BUT I also know how to be fun and love to laugh.for me it comes easy.I'm just wondering if there are any people out there who will indulge me in my caffeine addiction,respect me and have no issues laughing till it hurts.In my opinion you can get up every morning whining and crying about the day. OR you can choose to get up and laugh until you whine and cry "stop or please stop!" I like the later.**I love to meet new friends and gain new perspectives.A LTR can come later.**Feel free to drop me a line if you have any questions. Thanks! have a giggle on me:)I did not realize I would have to post this but who knew right?1. I will not share my personal info. That includes my *** number. That will come later if I think you are worthy 2. If I give you said info and you send me pictures of naked bodies I will block you on here and my phone. Depending how lewd the pictures are I may even share them with the police since my minor child has access to my phone and *** of my minor child. She WILL NOT be included in any dates. If you push this I will assume that you have pedophile tendency and will block you.****** If you think these rules are too strict then you will think my life is too. Move onNot looking to "date". Date sounds like I am out to interview a new life partner and live in baby sitter. NOT looking for hook ups

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Rach

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-51

    Hi! My name is Rach. I am separated protestant caucasian woman with kids from Temecula, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Karla

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-63

    I am happy with myself, and comfortable where my life has taken me, just looking for someone to share the rest of it with.Life is full of up's and downs...I'd like to socialize with those who prefer staying on the up rather than down. Life is all about the journey not the destination. You only have one shot at this thing so live, love and laugh.I am very passionate, caring and affectionate. Enjoy being woman. Would love to share fun times with someone special. I like to be active and I'm looking to meet someone with a similar sense of curiosity about life and culture.For those so informed, I am an ISFP and would particularly like to meet an ENTP or another ISFP. If you decide to *** take a moment and write a few sentences more than "Hi" or "Hi There". I don't tend to respond to such *** I am looking for someone who can communicate and has something to say.I admire and use all internet tools, however I don't enjoy endless cyberspace communications of any kind.I believe in real life chemistry!Let's meet for a quick coffee to see if we would like to see each other again.The location or what you do doesn't matter, the company does. Dinner can be awful with the wrong person, coffee can last hours with the right one.

  • Brandie

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    Woman. 67 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 57-77

    PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ MY PROFILE WORDS. PICTURES CANNOT GIVE YOU THE 'WHOLE' ESSENCE OF WHO I AM. I KNOW IT'S LENGTHY, BUT WORTH THE READ AND I DON'T WANT TO WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE. I'M VERY UP FRONT AND HONEST. SO, ANY QUESTIONS, JUST ASK.I'm the 'girl-next-door' type, with an adventurous nature. However, if I had to describe myself with one word...I'd have to say 'Eclectic'. Because I definitely think outside the box and am an 'acquired' taste. lol I've done quite a few interesting things in my life and don't regret any of them. There's a quote I found which says pretty much how I feel about life. "Life is not a journey with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and proclaiming "Wow! What a ride!" So, yes, I do have a few 'character' lines at my age, and I earned every one of them! lolUpdate: What am I looking for? Affection, warmth, holding hands, hugs, kisses, intellectual conversations, passion, have adventures, compatibility. I don't want to be married, but I do want a love/partner to grow older with. It's so much more fun with someone! lol I used to work for the County Government...8yrs as a police dispatcher, and 20 yrs as the Manager of the Admin Dept at a crisis center. I've retired from work, but not from Life! I want to go, do, see things, but still have some 'quiet' times with AND without my partner. Also, I can compromise on a lot of things, but not on compatibility. I need to feel a sense of ease/be comfortable with my 'date'. That is foremost. Unfortunately, you can't 'feel' that by looking at someone's picture or reading their 'words'. So, I like to meet in person sooner, rather than later. Only then will you know if that 'feeling' is there...by knowing that you are relaxed, feel your 'walls' coming down, and just enjoy talking and being with that person. However, sometimes, it takes more than once, to know the 'inside' of someone, to know if there is any 'physical chemistry' there as well. The first is more important to me. If that's there, then the 2nd will hopefully come, if its meant to be. Too many times, people meet for the first time and may not feel the 'sparks' they were anticipating. So they immediately 'write off' that person. Sometimes you have to see them again to really know for sure. Isn't it worth the 'extra look' ?? I am looking for a boyfriend/partner/lover for a long term, monogamous relationship. I'm a one-man woman and want a one-woman man. I do my best to maintain a healthy diet and stay active, but I'm a constant 'work in progress', lol No one is perfect and I don't look for that. We all have 'little things' we'd like to 'fix', but as long as we do our best to try to say healthy & active, that's all that really counts. I would like my partner to feel the same way. I joined a gym and work out at least 3 times a wk. NOT that i will stop going, but I am hoping that by the end of ***, I will be in even better shape, feeling good about myself, and totally awesome! LOL If I say I will accomplish a 'goal' (& this is one of them!) I WILL!! :) ****So, plz don't 'write me off' just because I may happen to have 10 or 15 lbs to lose, because it will be gone soon, and... I am just SOOOO Awesome inside and out, with or without them! LOLAlso, I saw this following quote on a gentleman's profile and so agreed with it that I wanted to share it. "Here's how I see it: our youthful physique is on the wane (hell, for must of us, it's already waned) and the elements of beauty have ceased to be based on physical qualities. During this Winter of our lives and as we seek our last love, shouldn't we base our search upon less superficial qualities?" ...Well said, don't you think? I have a passion for life and am a positive person who loves to smile and laugh (especially at myself). I'm trustworthy, spontaneous, unpredictable, attractive, intelligent & clever, love freedom, too sensitive & easily hurt, romantic on the inside(would you dance w/me in the rain? Kiss me during a tropical storm?lol), love reality and abstract, a bit rebellious when restricted, and a genuine happy spirit. Because I was a single parent and then the manager of a dept in a crisis center, I am used to being 'in charge/control' of things. Some men would feel threatened by that. Let me say right here, that I would LOVE to share that responsibility now!! I HAD to be that way because of the road my life went. If you are a strong, independent, confident man who is also kind and patient, then you can help me to sit back more now and let someone (you?) share that attribute with me. Like I said, I think maybe I'm an 'acquired taste'...you have to get used to me! THEN you'll either dislike me or love me! lolI'm 100% committed to those I care about and who care about me.I love my jeans, but 'dress up' nice. I have many 'interests' ...check them out on my profile. Most people think I'm in my 50s, because I think, act, and look younger, but I'll let you be the judge, because sometimes I wonder about that when I look too close in the mirror!! lol It would be nice if you liked good old fashion romancing...like holding hands, snuggling, hugs, long, slow kisses, PDAs. I look at a guy's eyes and smile first. They tell me a lot!*GENTLEMEN, PLEASE, if a lady has taken the time and gotten up the nerve to send you a message of interest, be considerate enough to send a response, even if your not interested! I'm sure a lot of you would want us to do the same thing. I think we are all on here looking for the same thing. Besides, it's just common courtesy. Your mom didn't raise you to be rude, I'm sure. So make her proud! lol Thanks!Depends on what you mean by first date! If you mean, First Meeting, then anywhere public is good, for a soda, drink, meal, whatever. However, would prefer maybe just having a cup of tea/coffee/wine on the beach watching the sun come up or going down. Or maybe a picnic, going to a park, walking the OC boardwalk, or just meeting in a quiet place. Since its not a DATE, then going DUTCH is fine by me.First REAL DATE could be anywhere and doing anything we are both happy with. We can decide together. **If you are looking for sex on the first date, move on to the next profile. Relationships are special to me. I am NOT into casual sex and I hope my date will think the same. ****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

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