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Ashley, 57

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About Me

I'm here looking for a guy, one guy... I know he's tall, simply because God made me 5'9" for a reason. ~smiles~ As for other physical specifics, I don't know what he looks like but I will know him when I see him. Interest-wise, I'm pretty sure that music moves him and a free association exchange is his idea of a good time. And what he is into and what I am into form an eclectic venn diagram.At a glance, I'm a tall, hourglass-shaped Scandinavian looking woman who favors protein drinks over beverages on tap. I look to be in my 40's and credit genetics and a lifetime of healthy choices. Looking for someone who understands the importance of exercise; I'm into jogging, jumprope, weight-lifting and Pilates. I recently made the shift from struggling to fit exercise in to making it a priority and asking myself how I need to rearrange my day to make it happen.I am blessed to be in a field that is both personally satisfying and intellectually stimulating. My work is team-oriented and if I do my job well, I am in a position to contribute to the quality of worklife for those around me. I take this responsibility seriously. My inspiration comes from numerous sources but this one remains near the top of the list: What if I do my job as well as my favorite musical artist? What would that look like?My spiritual philosophy is simple: Glean the qualities I admire from those I come in contact with and allow others to know them through me. I've experienced life out of balance (too many hours at the office!) and am learning what balance looks like for me. The biggest lesson so far is that it calls for discipline; knowing when to stop and shift gears. Mostly it's about being more present and making more conscious choices as opposed to being in auto-pilot.I'll tell you what I think but am equally adept at listening. What do you say?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Charmaine

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-53

    Happy to walk my pet with a local dog owner.Ok, you can blame this update on the reading of 'He's Just Not That Into You' if you like; but here's what I want:1. A man who will show that he wants me.2. Someone who is an intellectual equal - but not much higher in intellectual capacity than me because I can be slightly resentful (a bit of E.Q. - emotional quotient - growth probably required of me there then); don't patronise me at Scrabble though because as a Piscean I will 'intune' that you rigged the game (and lose respect for you).3. Someone who is around my age, or SLIGHTLY younger. If you are thinking that the word 'cougar' is the way to go - think again; if you are thinking 'trophy woman'....ditto. If you want kids - too late! Unless you are altruistic and are considering the idea of fostering/adoption - then perhaps that could work....4. LOCAL / LOCALISH / PREPARED TO MOVE (AND I OFFER NO GUARANTEES).5. If you want to know what sort of person I am then familiarise yourself with Jane Austen's work (and yes, I am aware of the irony that she died alone). The salient points that I garnered from her work:a) How to write extended sentences using the more complex punctuation marks for controlling thoughtsb) Her incredible observations about the comic/tragic nature of human personalitiesc) Her idealism re: good people eventually reap the reward.....damn world has lead me off course regarding that one (but yeah, that's my fault)Other than that, hobbies = dancing to good music (probably looks embarassing at my age, but apparently I'm good at it, so if you are the sort who hates dancing, that's fine, because if you have no sense of rhythm then it's embarrassing for me to watch anyway!); stand up comedy (observational, non-sexist, non-racist stuff. Why isn't Werzel famous yet??!)6. No profile picture / not sharing backstage at the first contact? - be realistic - a woman either will or will not consider you - quit hiding and have the guts to share who you are. Ditto with expanding your profile description.7. P.S. To any I have met before – thanks for helping me (yep, it’s a slow process) grow. :)8. I'm not perfect, but am working on it. I'm hoping to find the person who is perfect FOR ME; and ME FOR HIM.On a first date, I turn up - that usually shocks them!Walk our dogs?Beach?Game of pool? (Notice required so I remember to put on modest 'loser' pants).

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