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Lillian, 55
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

Hello, I've been told that I'm an intelligent, classy woman with a fun, spirited side. I'm not here to serial date, or to be serial dated :( I am here to take a chance, find someone with whom I can share common interests, and see where they might take us. I'm an outgoing woman looking for someone to join me on the dance floor, share some laughter, and if everything clicks, the quieter moments as well. I would love to find a man who is confident, balanced, kind, and comfortable in his accomplishments. Someone who knows who he is and is looking for the woman who complements him, not completes him. If you have a good sense of humor, enjoy trying new places and things, drop me a line. Just be honest and real, as that is what you will find with me. If you're curious to learn more, or something I've said has piqued your interest, please contact me. I am easy to talk to, fun to be with, yet complex where it matters. Best to you in finding your special connection.A good first date would be somewhere quiet or low key. Happy hour, a coffeehouse, lunch, or casual dinner. It just should be somewhere quiet enough to hear each other's ideas and see if there might be enough chemistry to take into a second date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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