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I have always said that with the amount of time that I spend on *** dating sites that I could write several books. To that end I have begun to write again, so you will have to find me. I will still check for ***, but I will not be actively searching the profiles. I will not ask you to read or edit my writing (at least not until the first draft is complete :)). Albert Einstein said the mysterious was the most beautiful thing that we could experience, but I think it might be true love. Love can be a mysterious thing so perhaps Einstein was on to something.This link is for a profile that I read that was interested in permaculture; *** I find this kind of thing fascinating and hope to find the time to build some of these types of projects.Ideally I am looking for passionate lover, loyal friend and confidante whom I can forge a strong bond with, a bond such that it will last a lifetime, so that one day, when we are perhaps into our hundreds, we will be able to look back at a rich and rewarding relationship. Ultimately it all begins with that first contact and starting out as friends. If there is one thing that I have learned about relationships, it is that they can start out of left field and sometimes when you least expect it, so I am open to possibilities and always willing to risk a conversation over coffee or a meal in a public place .An attitude that is playful, mischievous and a tad sarcastic is what I find most attractive. Second to that (I know this sounds kind of contradictory)is a nurturing and loving disposition. If you are genuine and down to earth it will get my attention more than anything else. It would be a bonus if you can play a fiddle or piano or guitar or can sing, but unfortunately it may complicate things because I will most likely fall in love the first time I hear you play I have always been very independent and a bit shy and when I was younger I always did things by myself very spur of the moment. These days I make a concerted effort to plan and get out and do things with friends and try to expand my social circle. You would most likely find me at the movie theatre, but watching a video at home with someone special would trump the theatre any day. Supper or lunch, either at home or out, is always a great way to relax and get to know someone. I am single, never been married or in any kind of long term living arrangement nor have I ever had a one night stand. I consider myself to be spiritual, but not a religious freak (although I once contemplated becoming a religious freak ) A friend of mine recently said that I have no ego. I think if it is true, it is because I have seen some hard times and find solace in the fact that things always work out in the end. A boss of mine once said that if I was any more laid back they would have to check to see if I was breathing.I have lost some friends and family both young and old these past few years and it has led me to make some changes towards achieving my dreams. You have been officially forewarned :).I liked these quotes on love from kids;'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who arestill friends even after they know each other so well.' Tommy - age 6 'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But ifyou mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.' Jessica - age 8 Good luck in your search. This site would not let me update my profile without a one word description of my personality. I chose rockstar which would be my alter ego, lol. Laid back would be the best description. In my case laid back is not synonymous with lazy :)A coffee seems the best place to start. A walk in the park is always good for conversation too. Perhaps go skating.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Brady

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-61

    I am young at heart and do not look my age. I am well educated and down to earth. I am looking for a long term relationship. I like to travel and enjoy going out to nice dinners as much as going to pubs. I am active, handsome and passionate. I can be riding my bike in the morning and at night I can be at a dress dinner. I am not the kind who likes one style of outing. I enjoy traveling, and I have travelled to various places around the world. I like to do outdoor activities and to be around people. I am divorced and been single for over 8 years. My kids are now 20 and 17 so they are independent and it is time to meet someone special. I would like to date someone who is caring, warm, and kind. Someone who knows how to dress for the occasion. I respond best to someone who is sophisticated and elegant in her attitude, yet also down to earth - who enjoys life and different activities (could be any of golf, bicycling, skiing, traveling, etc). Most importantly, someone who has positive energy, and an optimistic attitude about life. Someone with an athletic or Slim Body type and who is ready to have a relationship. Someone that I am proud of and would enjoy walking holding hands. Beware I like cuddling and kissing!For first date, I would say go for a coffee and talk. Second date could be dinner at a nice restaurant.

  • Bryce

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-57

    I'm originally from California but moved to Austin, TX in ***. I love to travel whether its across town or over seas. I travel alot in the US and try to travel over seas at least once a year. I'm into adventure sports like motocross, rock climbing and surfing. I can also do a fantastic impression of a couch potato. I keep myself in shape and feel Im in great shape for my age. I try to eat well but I can polish off a stack of pancakes like I'm getting paid too. I'v been told that I have great style but I feel most comfortable in jeans and a Tshirt. Love animals. Love reading. I had a great childhood and grew up fairly normal. I try to call my parents at least once a week. I love good food and like to try new restaurants. My favorite type of music is rock (QOTSA) but I also like jazz (MILES) and country (CASH). I think I have a witty sense of humor. I'm 45 but people are suprised when I tell them. They often say I look and act like I'm in my thirties. I don't know if that is good or bad. I'm not really into the club seen but I do like to go out on occasion if I'm with cool people at the right place. I'm looking for a relationship with a woman that is fun, smart, sexy and beautiful both physically and mentally. I think woman are most attractive when they are happy and smiling. A good personallity and optimistic attitude is a big turn on. I'v been told my pictures make me look kind of serious and hard but I can assure you that I am really very gentle and personable. I'm happy and content with my life but I'm restless for more. If any of my profile resonates with you then I'd love to hear from you.I want to be able to get to know you so sharing a bottle of wine somewhere would be brilliant.

  • Timothy

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-63

    Yeah...this all needs to be updated. I recently moved to Denver for work. Pretty psyched to be here. Would like to meet someone who can at least tell me what the fun things to do are around here. Maybe do them with me.I'll put more info on here when I can get to a desk top computer. I'd love to chat with you if you get the urge.****************************Point of clarification...greenmonster is the famous left field wall at Fenway park. I'm not a jealous guy. So that name can be misleading. This doesn't seem that outrageous. At this point in life, what I really want is cool friends who like to meet for afternoon drinks, explore Denver area and just have fun. It's not absolute, so more is possible and hoped for, but NO pressure for more. I want sexy, adventurous friends who like to flirt and live life, but without expectations for forever after, at least not until we see if that's doable.Now back to our programming...I'm a single guy who is still hoping to find someone who makes me want to just hang out and enjoy the silent chemistry or the passionate heat.I used to be a bad boy (no jail record...hope that doesn't hurt me) but I'm much mellower now. I like women with attitude, confidence and a sexiness that they are assured of, whether Hollywood would agree or not. Being a sexy woman is all about attitude. I like treating a woman like she's special, important, and desired. I also like to feel like I'm special to her.What else? I'm educated, stubborn, self-confident, monogamous, but adventurous, creative and spontaneous.I hope you'll write. We might enjoy the complexity of our differences, and the challenges of our symmetries.First dates are like meetings but shouldn't be like interviews. No pressure, no expectations. It's cool if we don't connect...because that happens sometimes. So just chilling together is fun. I've made friends from first meetings that weren't good date connections. Being new to the area, I just like to try things, because every thing is new.

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