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Bessie, 46
United States, California, Richmond

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About Me

I often find myself humming for no apparent reason. Friends say I make my own muzak. But my musical ability does not stop there. I love to perform. I've done everything from singing ***, to characters at children's parties to being a fly girl dancer for a local band to a karaoke host. And I have opinions on most everything, but love to hear what others think--it can be enlightening. I am reentering the dating scene after self imposed time off, moving slowly, the objective is monogamy. Some might call me full figured, others might call me big and beautiful. Who I'm looking for? Closeted nerds please apply!!! /You are equal parts Peyton Manning, Stephen Colbert, David Letterman, and insert arty farty reference here, your online pic is a resemblance, not a remembrance, and you understand the importance of posting pictures (NO PICS, NO RESPONSE, this is non-negotiable). You lean to the left and love strong women with opinions. You have them too, but are open to listening to others point of view. You might play guitar and enjoy singing even if you can't carry a tune, but being able to sing is a plus!! Family is important to you and you enjoy spending time with children (not necessarily your own), but not in a creepy way, yikes! Religion is a state of mind for you. You worship in your own way--unstructured. It's not necessarily a place you go every day or every week. Good times are about the company you're keeping not so much about the activity or the place. But you do love a good time, and a good laugh-- laughter is essential, you don't take yourself too seriously and you don't sweat the small stuff. You have a very happy and fulfilling life already, and you are a pleasure for me to be with and vice versa. Your smile lights up a room (something that can never be faked). I am just the icing on your cake.Message me if you are well spoken, well read, can effortlessly compose a sentence and ask questions that can open and keep a conversation moving in a forward direction.What is up with all the selfies? Selfie only profile suggests to me little effort went into creating a thoughtful representation of the subject.I wouldn't call the initial meeting a first date, that is where you find out if you are interested. I like to keep that simple, a drink, a slice of pizza, juice bar etc. Something that can be short or extended if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Hispanic

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    quit smoking ***so far I'm good with it :)omg...being funny, witty & even cute is great but PLEASE DON'T BE CHEESY! LOLBig...HUGE...Turn OFF...just saying. :-/I was diagnosed with Cancer Feb. ***...since then I am doing well and have completed all my treatments and surgeries and I am now ready to start over.I still have days I get tired easily or some side effects still come about and I guess always will here and there. Please have the respect to be honest and if you cant deal with it PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME AT ALL!!!!If you cant Accept me at my Worst, you dont Deserve me at my Best!!!!!!!!Simply looking to meet a guy that is TALL, caring, kind, loving, HONEST...someone that knows what he wants and follows thru to get it. SOMEONE THAT SAYS WHAT HE MEANS AND MEANS WHAT HE SAYS!!!!! Tell me...don't think i know, cause i can't read your mind. It's the simple things that make me Happy and put a smile on my face...texts, calls, notes, etc just because you were thinking of me...keep me interested by letting me know you are interested..."hit & run texting" bores me. I like anything from camping to cruises!Please have a nice smile!!! it is important to me that you can smile and not have to hide your teeth :o) and if your proud of your rotten teeth...we are not a match...lol PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF POSTED...If you would like to know more ask...good luck with your search...keep it simple...a cup of coffee somewhere we can talk.---Please.

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