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Bessie, 46
United States, California, Richmond

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About Me

I often find myself humming for no apparent reason. Friends say I make my own muzak. But my musical ability does not stop there. I love to perform. I've done everything from singing ***, to characters at children's parties to being a fly girl dancer for a local band to a karaoke host. And I have opinions on most everything, but love to hear what others think--it can be enlightening. I am reentering the dating scene after self imposed time off, moving slowly, the objective is monogamy. Some might call me full figured, others might call me big and beautiful. Who I'm looking for? Closeted nerds please apply!!! /You are equal parts Peyton Manning, Stephen Colbert, David Letterman, and insert arty farty reference here, your online pic is a resemblance, not a remembrance, and you understand the importance of posting pictures (NO PICS, NO RESPONSE, this is non-negotiable). You lean to the left and love strong women with opinions. You have them too, but are open to listening to others point of view. You might play guitar and enjoy singing even if you can't carry a tune, but being able to sing is a plus!! Family is important to you and you enjoy spending time with children (not necessarily your own), but not in a creepy way, yikes! Religion is a state of mind for you. You worship in your own way--unstructured. It's not necessarily a place you go every day or every week. Good times are about the company you're keeping not so much about the activity or the place. But you do love a good time, and a good laugh-- laughter is essential, you don't take yourself too seriously and you don't sweat the small stuff. You have a very happy and fulfilling life already, and you are a pleasure for me to be with and vice versa. Your smile lights up a room (something that can never be faked). I am just the icing on your cake.Message me if you are well spoken, well read, can effortlessly compose a sentence and ask questions that can open and keep a conversation moving in a forward direction.What is up with all the selfies? Selfie only profile suggests to me little effort went into creating a thoughtful representation of the subject.I wouldn't call the initial meeting a first date, that is where you find out if you are interested. I like to keep that simple, a drink, a slice of pizza, juice bar etc. Something that can be short or extended if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Hispanic

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-38

    Wow, it is so hard to talk about yourself on here enough to grab someones attention! I will try and keep it short and sweet, which may be hard for me :) I am a fun loving, mature, honest, trustworthy, what you see is what you get type of girl. I love animals, kids, and spending time outside ( who doesnt? ). I try not to judge others, and I am pretty open minded because I know everyone is the way they are for a reason. I love laughing, making others laugh, doing spontaneous things, and having a good time. I like to try and think that I'm a pretty funny person, but who knows..maybe I just think that :) I definately know what I want in a partner and won't settle for less. I'm a good conversationalist. I do have pictures upon request, for professional reasons I just choose not to put them up here, but I do have them :) Cheaters,liars need not apply! I'm a sickly genuine person and I want the same in someone.P.S. Let's quit it with the *** for sexual favors, who honestly goes on here to look for someone to have sex with?..come on people we are on a website here..you're just asking to get herpes from someone. K thanks. :)For a first date I'd love to do something we both enjoy. My ideal first date would probably be grabbing some coffee, taking a walk in the park, or even going to the zoo. Definately something that lets me get to talk to the other person and get to know them. So, definately no movie theatre first date with me! :)

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-41

    I have done hair for over 12 years and that is definitely a true passion of mine!Huuge animal lover!Very open minded. Love a good conversation. Best snuggler known to mankind ;)Someone who i can laugh with is vital because i loove to laugh. There is soo much more to share..If interested ask away! I am not judgemental, and hard to offend.There are soo many options!

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  • Deborah from Richmond | Woman | 61 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 61 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-71

    I like driving, less lately as my friend can no longer travel so miss the countryside, I love my kids but we have or own lives now as does'my family, I like cooking new foods I play scrable with nice cheese and fruit I have achieved most of my goals that were attainable, my new one is to just meet some one who likes the things I do and is a real person with whom I could be me and relaxI like most music if it's goodI am open to leaning about new places and life styles I just love life at a more sedate pace now and love to enjoy nature and the uk. I've just read this horrific I sound so boring I'm not love having fun and enjoy the outdoors I need to rewrite this but haven't the ye today ??????Maybe a nice chat and a walk ? Not sure really it's something we could discuss, somewhere that suits us both Or the standard pub meet ????

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