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Marissa, 44
United States, California, El Monte

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About Me

So I have to try to explain what it is I'm looking for and what types of men make me run for the hills. I think I can manage that. :) First and foremost, there must be RESPECT. I personally believe that mutual respect is an absolute must if you want to build a healthy relationship. I am extremely picky when it comes to dating which is why I choose to be single quite often. It takes a very special person to catch and keep my attention. I don't want a "typical guy" those are easy to come by, believe me I've had them. I want a man who can prove to me that he's different from the rest. Please, if you are "currently separated" (I do not care if your divorce is "final next month") or even currently married I am really NOT interested. I do not share men with other women. NO exceptions! The most important qualities to me are a great sense of humor, intelligence, ambition, faithfulness, decency, dependability, integrity, and sincerity. If you're simply out for a "good time" or to "complete a conquest" please, keep on moving. If you're a bar-fly, into strip clubs (it makes no difference to me if your buddies allegedly "drag" you there), pornography, the club-scene, too close with your ex's, bounce around from woman to woman you can keep moving too. I promise you, we will NOT be compatible. Guaranteed been there, done that, been burned by it all. I really would love the opportunity to find someone who treats me well, who I feel comfortable with and enjoy being around. Chemistry is ESSENTIAL. There has to be mutual attraction. I can do without a lot of things in life, but 'sparks' sure isn't one of them!! I want someone who I'm extremely attracted to (anyone who says that physical attraction is irrelevant is lying). We should bring out the best qualities in each other and I would like someone who can become my best friend. I don't know maybe I am asking for too much? :) But what I do know is that no one should ever settleI absolutely adore my family and close friends. I consider myself extremely blessed to have such wonderful people in my life. I am not into bars although nights out are nice. I enjoy traveling, reading, shopping, blockbuster nights, and exercising. I dislike cheaters & players. If you contact me, please have pictures. This is a dating site why wouldn't you post them? If you do not have pictures posted, please know that the chances of me responding are slim to none. If you have pictures of yourself with an ex, the chances of me responding are zero. :) Lastly please be who you claim to be. Lying about who or what you are is so very sad. If I happen to find my match, I'll be a very happy girl! For the few of you that actually read through all of my ramblings, thanks so much for taking the time to view my profile, and happy searching!! :)For a first date I like going casual. I love going to places that are on or near water. I enjoy sitting outside, having a few drinks and just taking time to get to know each other. So many people have a tendency of not being themselves on a first date because they are too busy trying to impress with what they have and not who they are. One other very important thing that has to happen on that date is lots of laughing. I laugh all the time, not just at life but at myself too. Nothing wrong with that. When I meet a man that can do that for me it just makes them even more attractive.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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