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Kristen, 68
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

Independantly wealthy (of spirit!), good-humored company looking to share the vast bounty of the suncoast-- I'm still a career gal, but maintain an active, balanced lifestyle outside the office and would love good company with whom to share the ride. I can't say that I'm actively looking to get married; that kind of focused expectation usually only creates regrets at this time of life. I'd rather discover a "true companion" through shared interests and experiences and then be delightfully amazed at where the possibilities might lead! While I don't subscribe to "love at first sight," I am a converted follower of "divine intervention," which preserves my wrye eye on life: expect to be surprised!! Some values I hold dear are honesty, integrity and compassion. I respect kindness on all levels and cherish history with friends, memories, hope and a peaceful heart. A devoted animal lover, I volunteer with my dog, Jazz, in the Hospice Therapy Dog program. (We've also successfully completed Agility Dog training, coming to the inevitable conclusion that Jazz has ultimately more forward gears than I!). The outdoors nurture my soul, especially kayaking Florida's backwaters and bicycling to wherever. I love casual home entertaining, good conversation, playfulness and laughter, dancing, playing bridge, social poker with the neighbors, interactive games of all kinds--especially word games. I tend to be curious by nature, genuine and casual; spur of the moment plans fit easily--and usually turn out to be some of the best times. I love God and country and spent 4 years with the USO, based in Washington, DC, during the Viet Nam era. The "life dance" is full of surprises and I try to speak and live my truth. That's the part that can't be defined by words...everything unravels in its own good time--and, from here, YOU decide if you pick up the beat!! Either way, thanks for reading this far!For starters, I'd welcome something light with a casual venue that's comfortable for us both. In fact, the concept of "first dates" is overrated. I'm easy to talk with--always a springboard to discovery. From there, I have to go back to my trust in "divine intervention."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-44

    Hey yous!I've got personality, warmth, spunk, wit! I get in modes where I love the unpredictable randomness and sarcasm in shows like family guy, archer, south park and tosh.o because some things in life should not be taken so seriously. I don't offend easily and can sarcastically banter like "one of the dudes" on guys night out. With that said, I also think its important to be a classy well-rounded lady that my Mother can be proud of. It's all about balance baby! I am focused on my career but there are times when I like to be goofy and playful! I love my family and friends to no end and I am the kind of person who can get along with just about anyone. I try to make it a point to stay positive and try to create fun no matter what I am doing and who I am with. I have a strong connection with individuals who can lighten up, don't get offended too easily and are open-minded with a sense of humor. You know...the kind of people who not only laugh at jokes but can also add to them cuz I may run out of jokes and then we will be stuck staring at each other awkwardly in silence until one of us leaves. Don't just tell me you're funny...show it..perhaps in an *** or your profile? No more laffy taffy jokes please ;) Currently I am living, and loving life. My career and ambitious goals are my number 1 focus right now and in my opinion, relationships should not be rushed and I'm in no hurry nor am I looking for a "void" to be filled. I am a therapist who also works part time as a real estate agent. I love being single and it will take someone pretty epic to get me to want to settle down. I am looking for someone that I would want to be friends with first with drama and expectations aside. I find after going on a few dates that dudes want to go from 0 to serious in a few seconds and I'm sorry but I can't get to know you in that short of time enough to determine if you're a good fit for me. I'm here to get to know cool people and if I decide that in the process of getting to know you that I can't live without you then it is sooo on! ;)I know the kind of connection I want in a partner and I am not going to settle till I find exactly what I'm looking for. A best friend and lover for life! I am looking for a quality dude who has made good decisions in his life who I can honor and respect. When I do find it, I want to start a family and the whole bit...I am as real and honest as they get...I am not here to just date random dudes and If I contact you then there may be potential.* I am willing to travel for the right person and my career allows me the flexibility and option to travel* I believe that relationships should be more like a partnership built on communication and compromise and an even keel of give and take...* Are you shy and care about people judging you? Sorry...I'd prob embarrass you because I really don't care about what people think about me and I like to be goofy sometimes...scratch that...most of the time. *Double bonus if you know how to cook delicious food! Just so you know, I find myself attracted to people who are clever/witty, social, intelligent, self aware, confident and ambitiously driven. If you think that we may click, message or IM away! If you do contact me or any other chick on here via ***, remember that the first impression is key...Thanks! Enough about me...Tell me about yourself!Because I am so well-rounded, I am happy doing just about anything. I wouldn't mind meeting at a coffee shop, going to dinner (I am a foodie who loves trying new and tasty foods) and/or hitting up comedy show (I love helium!). I also love to explore and hike, snowboard (although I will be rusty guaranteed), rock-climb (although I don't have the gear for it and it's been a while). I love going for a night on the town in Portland or the "coove" (that is the hip way so say Vancouver). I love to sing! If you do too, then a karaoke bar would be fun. I love to dance and have dabbled in Salsa, swing, a lil country and regular dancing. I can't sit still if music is on!

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    Woman. 57 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-67

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  • Wendi from Santa Maria | Woman | 53 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-63

    I am looking for someone to laugh with and have fun! I believe in being truthful, but never mean. I am told I am a wonderful friend, thoughtful, considerate and compassionate. I own my own home and am very happy and comfortable in my life. I love entertaining, spending time with friends and soon to be friends. I'm always looking for a great place to eat, from simple home cooking to a gourmet meal. I am active in volunteer work and I look for ways to make a difference. I spend my time exploring, learning, and growing. I enjoy debating and good conversation. I am an animal lover and you should be too. I am attracted to dark hair/dark eyed men (Bald is a plus). I think a man with a brain and uses it is very sexy and trumps appearance. You like to enjoy yourself, and have interests that you are passionate about. Laughter is an everyday occurrence. Are you nice to your Mom? You know yourself and are comfortable in your own skin. I am looking for a romantic gentleman. Do you know how to cook? Enjoy good food? Do you like to work in the yard? With your hands? ***Friendly? All bonuses but not deal breakers.Something casual, where we could talk and see if we click. Coffee or a glass of wine? Always in a public place in the Providence area for the first meeting.

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