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Arlene, 42

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About Me

I want to be with someone who appreciates the little tidbits of life that are worth poking fun at. Charlie Chaplin said it best, "A day without laughter is a day wasted." Life is too short to take it all so seriously.I am a curious girl who is passionate about helping others, particularly children. I am thoughtful, creative, introspective, and non-judgmental. I love to travel and spend a lot of time thinking about my next adventure (Machu Pichu is my next conquest- the hiking version, not the day train). I enjoy good meals with a great bottle of wine and an even better conversation. I am looking for you to reintroduce me to the five boroughs or beyond through food, wine, long walks, and through the ridiculous and unique elements of life that turn you on. I am looking for a partner who is comfortable with himself, caring, easy going, open-minded, affectionate and quick witted. Bonus if you are sarcastic and play scrabble or spades (but I won't hold it against you).Looking forward to hearing from you!First date - good conversation and good wine, maybe a long walk........I am open to that taking place in many different settings.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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