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Lola, 45
United States, California, Visalia

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About Me

I would be a chunky.. a big bite of delicious sweetness and just a little nutty. Ready to dive back into the pool. Formally shy, still am a little if I like you. I am working on good karma but just can't seem to throw away the horns completely. I melt for a guy with manners who is good with his hands. I have a passion for bellydancing and bonus points for the man who will learn Latin, ballroom or any dance with me. I recently got this description of an Aquarius which i thought rather fitting. ( not that i rule my life by horoscope! lol) Aquarius: The Sweetheart-- Optimistic and honest. Sweet personality. Very independent. Inventive and Intelligent. Can seem unemotional ( I say a reserved heart and that still waters run deep.) Can be a bit rebellious. Very stubborn. ( mm in a good way I think ..I stand my ground when its important but otherwise flexible and easygoing.) But original and unique. Attractive on the inside and out. Eccentric personality.My goal for ***is to be healthy, happy and wise! Hoping to find a man who has the same aspirations. We can succeed together.It seems I have the need to clarify several things: I absolutely cannot be around people who smoke anything. Or if you live or work with smokers of anything. Asthma is not my choice and that's my only trigger. I do not live safely accessible to public transportation. Not everywhere I like to go is accessible. Nor do I desire to be the sole provider of a mode of transportation . So if you do not drive or have access to vehicle, I cannot fathom how dating would work. But I am open to solutions always. I desire a serious committed long term relationship. Someone to share my love, life and bed. As woman I need to care about my safety. I would like to get to know a person a bit through this site, then text/calls before meeting. Please respect this.hmmm... first date, probably something like stroll around the Stone Zoo and get to know each other or if the weather is inclement, coffee at Barnes & Noble.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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