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Charmaine, 43

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About Me

Happy to walk my pet with a local dog owner.Ok, you can blame this update on the reading of 'He's Just Not That Into You' if you like; but here's what I want:1. A man who will show that he wants me.2. Someone who is an intellectual equal - but not much higher in intellectual capacity than me because I can be slightly resentful (a bit of E.Q. - emotional quotient - growth probably required of me there then); don't patronise me at Scrabble though because as a Piscean I will 'intune' that you rigged the game (and lose respect for you).3. Someone who is around my age, or SLIGHTLY younger. If you are thinking that the word 'cougar' is the way to go - think again; if you are thinking 'trophy woman'....ditto. If you want kids - too late! Unless you are altruistic and are considering the idea of fostering/adoption - then perhaps that could work....4. LOCAL / LOCALISH / PREPARED TO MOVE (AND I OFFER NO GUARANTEES).5. If you want to know what sort of person I am then familiarise yourself with Jane Austen's work (and yes, I am aware of the irony that she died alone). The salient points that I garnered from her work:a) How to write extended sentences using the more complex punctuation marks for controlling thoughtsb) Her incredible observations about the comic/tragic nature of human personalitiesc) Her idealism re: good people eventually reap the reward.....damn world has lead me off course regarding that one (but yeah, that's my fault)Other than that, hobbies = dancing to good music (probably looks embarassing at my age, but apparently I'm good at it, so if you are the sort who hates dancing, that's fine, because if you have no sense of rhythm then it's embarrassing for me to watch anyway!); stand up comedy (observational, non-sexist, non-racist stuff. Why isn't Werzel famous yet??!)6. No profile picture / not sharing backstage at the first contact? - be realistic - a woman either will or will not consider you - quit hiding and have the guts to share who you are. Ditto with expanding your profile description.7. P.S. To any I have met before – thanks for helping me (yep, it’s a slow process) grow. :)8. I'm not perfect, but am working on it. I'm hoping to find the person who is perfect FOR ME; and ME FOR HIM.On a first date, I turn up - that usually shocks them!Walk our dogs?Beach?Game of pool? (Notice required so I remember to put on modest 'loser' pants).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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  • Morg

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-35

    Hi! My name is Morg. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Garland, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Esther

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-59

    What I want, let's see...I'd love to find a tall guy, with a few tats, is a little ruff on the outside but has a heart of gold and is sweet. I'd love to find a man who wants to spend time with me and share our friends and family, likes holding hands and kissing, but most importantly over all must make me laugh and likes to smile.I like to go out to shows and concerts, out to dinner and or drinks. I don't go out out every night, but would rather spend time enjoying my company out in the city than just watching tv on my couch. That can be saved for the days we are tired and want to stay in. If I'm very lucky...you will be a romantic, a gentleman and put me somewhere at the top of your list. You will like that I am usually in a dress or always try to look feminine. I can get dirty and not whine, but feel more womanly when I look pretty.I may not look like it but I usually work out ***days a week before work, if you belong to Gold's Gym, come work out with me.I don't want someone who is playing games, says they are single and are really married, says they live here and are really here on vacation or business.Not interested in anyone who lives out of town.I love to go dancing, to shows, out to dinner, sitting in loungy clubs and listening to live music...and spending time with someone special

  • Charlene

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    Woman. 58 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-68

    Thanks for stopping by. I'm a country gal by nature with brains, opinions and plenty of abilities. I’m old fashioned about some things and progressive about others. Born a Libra, I’ve spent my life seeking balance for the diversity of my own personality. I'm a very curious person & my interests are vast and varied from ball room dancing to eco friendly construction, writing, sculpting, costuming & carving to name just a few. I'm an amateur historian, artist & writer. I also train dogs, research historical cooking and play D&D.My friends have described me as part Klingon & part Betazoid (yes, I'm a SiFi buff) and I enjoy creative challenges. I'm spiritual as opposed to religious, I meditate & do yoga & appreciate the quiet spaces in life as well as the high energy ones. I'm open minded & stubborn (hey, red hair!) curious, loyal and honest... to a fault perhaps and my super power is common sense. Don't be fooled by the "few extra pounds", I'm no couch potato! I work hard & I play hard. I'll take a walk in the country over a trip to the city most days. I have a special relationship with water & have been known to travel a long way just to stick my toes into it. I have never looked or acted my age and I'm not going to start now & I really dislike being judged by a number. FYI - I am actually 63 although I don't look or act my age. I hit the wrong year & it refuses to let me change it. I'm an armful & a handful and definitely no wall flower. I've reached that stage in my life where it's time to take better care of me & having 2 knees replaced in the last year has slowed me down a bit but ..I'm working on that. I'm using some of my new spare time to be more healthy & do more things I enjoy. Doing them with a friend would be even more fun.UPDATE:My job was down sized last Oct so I decided to take my retirement early. I went back to school for a Pastry class and relearned that I never want to be a commercial cook! I am however very interested in food sculpture. I'm researching a Fantasy book I "need" to write and I'm working on getting back in shape after my knee surgeries...which was really challenging when your learning to make pastries! I've been a dog person all my life and expect I always will be. If the knees come around I'd like to get back into dancing & historical fencing and someday I will dig out my cross bow and take up target practice again! I love big, tall, outdoorsy men but, the package isn't as important as what's inside. A great smile is the first thing I notice ..and laugh lines. The ability to laugh... at life..silly humans...yourself, is essential. It would be "frosting on the cake" if you appreciate my cooking, like to dance & loved to explore also.. If any of that sounds interesting and you’d like to know more, I look forward to hearing from you. FYI - I am only a basic member. If I put you on my favorites list, it means I'm intrigued by your profile. If you feel the same, start a conversation! The very best of luck to you either way! SarahTalking is a great place to start. As much as I'd like to find "my partner" it has to start with friendship. Even if it goes no further, I can always use good friends.

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