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Yolanda, 57
United States, California, Thousand Oaks

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About Me

Hi,Well where do I start, I've been on this site for over a year now and thought maybe I should start using it and put a little info in my profile. So I added some pictures and now have to figure out what to say about me. So here goes, I love cats(but only have 2, not a house full) so if you aren't into cats we probably would not work. I am pretty easy going and like to spend time with friends and family. Camping, boating, playing cards, throwing darts, dancing, watching movies are a few of the things I enjoy doing. The Packers are awesome but if they aren't playing I don't usually watch football or any other sport unless someone I know is playing. The man I would like in my life would be loving, gentle but strong, caring, affectionate, and not afraid to show that affection in public. He should be able to talk about anything(yes even woman stuff!!) and above all he needs to make me laugh. Humor is seriously the best medicine for everything, I love to laugh so hard my cheeks hurt, and my ribs ache. He will be financially secure and although I am very independent, I want someone to take care of me at least somewhat. I have had 2 long term relationships in my life and I was the caretaker in both, this time I would like someone to do that for me or at least we could take care of each other. I own my own home, nothing fancy but not a dump either. I recently put in hardwood flooring, new window treatments, new appliances, added a deck and did some new landscaping. Would really like to find someone to enjoy the deck with, gets kinda lonely sitting out there by myself!!!Meet someplace where we could have a couple drinks, maybe a bite to eat and see where it goes from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting
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