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Margie, 53
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

Hello....I'm glad you stopped by. I am hoping to be in the right place at the right time to meet the right fellow. I live in the rural neck of the woods. It's hard to find a good match in such a small pond. I am open-minded about life and other people's beliefs. I also believe in the golden rule....Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I appreciate all types of music like Blues, Jazz, Classic Rock, Country, that Big Band sound from an era long forgotten. Rap can be fun to dance to (actually, I kind of like Eminem). I also enjoy music from the 50's and 60's. Remember songs like, Wichita Lineman, Downtown, Cherish, If I Were a Carpenter, and I Say a Little Prayer for You? It's always better when you can do things with someone. Clubs, dinner, rides at the fair, and traveling would be fun. And, oh yes, horse back riding! I want to go so bad :) I also think it would be fun for someone to introduce some of their interests. It's being with the right person that makes the activity fun. One tends to feel a bit isolated up in these parts. I also like hanging out at home, watching TV, surfing the web (I think I'm addicted to Youtube), walks, cooking, or making a garden with someone special. I have done many different things in life. I used to play and sing in a band, worked with the elderly, worked with children, and developmentally challenged adults and children. I have worked in a restaurant/pub during the day (I hated working nights there). I am one math class away from an associates degree (I'm not much of a math girl). But over all I would consider myself a musician/singer more than anything else. Harmony has always come naturally to me. I'm not afraid of a microphone and a stage...well, I mean...I guess it can be a bit intimidating sometimes. There is a difference between a gentleman who is protective and a man who is possessive. That being said, I am not threatened by a more traditional type of relationship. I rather prefer it :) I would like to find my best friend and it turn into love or vice versa. Someone who makes me feel like I want to be a better person and who finds that in me as well. Someone who accepts this red head exactly the way I am. I am honest, loyal, giving, and an individual. I have a lot of love to give :) Very Much luck to you. > ´¯`·.¸¸..> ·´¯`·.¸¸..> WARNIN: Aint nobody allowed to be usin eny a my words here on my profile....not the biggins or the smalluns or eny. In other words, don't be usin eny thing Iv said on heir as yer own or try to use bits of it or all of it some wheres else! Don't be tryin to snag up eny a my fotos neither! You DOO NOT have my cunsint to put up eny a my fotos eny wheres else PEEREUD! Or else I will have to get yer sticky fangers in trubel some wheres. An I thank ya. (just a little humor here, but I means it.)No pressure. Let's meet with the expectation that our paths have crossed for a reason and we may have found a new friend. If more of a connection is made, then great :)Please forgive me in advance for not always responding back to *** I see that we aren't really a good match, I honestly don't want to hurt any ones feelings and it's hard to always know what to say. I hope I don't come across as rude or me being a snob. I really believe that everyone is special and unique. I believe that there is a really good fit for everyone who wants it and seeks it. I also want to thank you for allowing me to be so long winded. If you've gotten this far, I appreciate it :) And now for the secret of life.... ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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