SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Dolores
Online
Woman. 64 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 54-74
I am an easy going person looking for balance in life with a good man. I would like to meet someone who will take the time to get to know me as a person. I have a good job, home and would like to meet someone with whom I can enjoy Vegas. It is much better when shared.My headline means I am taking applications for friends....and if more develops we will both be blown away but be mature enough to go along with whatever happens.....we are not always given the time and place at the same time...so go for it! Too many people sabotage their own happiness.....fear of being vulnerable will do it every time! I enjoy chatting with people but sometime it is overwhelming when too many people write. I want to at least acknowledge their effort (because sometimes is very hard for people to make the first move)....but time doesnt always allow. Life gets in the way...so please do not be offended if I do not answer right away, I will try to acknowledge in some form before it is deleted.I have never been married...people seem to think this is strange, but I always said if I ever got married, it would be to my best friend. Still looking for him. I have some very close male friends who have previously dated. We just came to knew we were not forever and ever, but we took the time to be friends first. I liked what I brought out in these people and think it is neat if they find someone that brings that out in them again...that is mature love for a person. You CAN love but not be IN love. I want to do it right or not at all.Effort is a biggie for me. If someone is not going to put forth the effort in the beginning of a relationship (when things are fresh and the person wants to pursue something with you), it is NOT going to happen when comfortable in a relationship and taken for granted. Effort ( or visible lack of) is a deal breaker for me. I can do MOST things myself, and after taking care of myself all these years, I am not going to settle.I would like to meet someone who does not smoke. I am very sensitive to cigarette smoke and cannot stand the smell of it and what it does to the surroundings...it just stays there..besides is not fun kissing an ashtray :-) and I do enjoy kissing grinI understand it is very difficult to quit if you have been smoking awhile...but smoking is an option! I dont want to come 2nd to cigarettes...I have done that before.Depends what we both feel like doing at the time. I have had first meetings at Starbucks for coffee, breakfasts at Ihops or dinners at Applebees or some quieter places. It also is controlled by the time frame we have to work with. If people really want to connect they will take advantage of the tiniest time slots the universe sends us :-)
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Heather
Online
Woman. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-70
I am a happy, healthy, and an honest, open lady. How will that benefit you? You probably won't have to wonder what I am thinking and if you're having a not so pleasant day I'll do whatever I can to turn it around. Whatever is happening is just life and it seems easier to try to make the best of it, in other words I like to think of myself as adaptable.I'm open to new adventures, really about the only things I won't try are sky diving, bungee jumping or hang gliding...they would probably all be fun but it's about this fear of falling! Hip hop and rap music get on my last nerve fairly quickly, beyond that I'm open. It would be nice to find a relationship that is as comfortable as my favorite pair of shoes. The type of man I'm looking for is one that is confident (not arrogant) respects himself and treats others with equal respect, and who appreciates and values the companionship of a great woman. One that can be as competitive and boastful around others as pleases him but realizes that in an intimate relationship that most often when you win you lose. One who knows how to listen as well as he can talk, One that is comfortable being himself around me. I believe I want what most others want out of life, to find someone they can trust and love, be themself with, laugh with and not be judged and to have as much happiness, harmony and peace as possible.Think this would be by mutual agreement. Would want to do something where we could get to know one another....conversation would be a good start.
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Bobbi
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-53
I consider myself to be a hard worker I have a career which I enjoy and am very passionate about. I have a son who is almost 15 so balancing work, home and dating can sometimes be challenging. I enjoy the outdoors, going to gym which will soon again be part of my lifestle. I really enjoy working in the yard which saves me money from hiring someone else to do it. What I look for in a man? Well just someone who is real, someone who is looking for an awesome friendship which could end in a great relationship. Someone who is ambitious and has drive, someone who knows how to balance being a hard worker yet can still enjoy life. Someone who wants to not just be there for me but wants to be a part of who I am, what I do, and what I love. The man of my dreams is not just the one I can live with, it is he I couldn't imagine living without.Coffee would be nice.