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Hello.... I am a Happy Woman and live a very healthy lifestyle...Honesty...Humor...Laughter even if at yourself are key to my life.... I'm a optimist.. adventurous... I'm up for it all.. I live today dream of tomorrow, and cherish the present... Got togetherness..adventure..affection..respect... Bring it ..I'm ready are you??? I read the Secret it changed my life .... No Beards, Goatees, I like clean facial looks....mmmm kissing is important.... I very much want to be in a relationship (But) I don't want to be in the Wrong one.... NEVER MAKE SOMEONE A PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE WHEN YOU ARE AN OPTION IN THEIRS."If you want to win, do the ordinary things better than anyone else does - day in and day out." Check List for a great relationship..trust, loyalty, respect, truthful, desire Love is..... Love is passion, adoration, someone you can't livewithout. If you don't start with that, what are yougoing to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say findsomeone you can love like crazy and who'll love you thesame way back. And how do you find him or her ? Forgetyour head and listen to your heart. Run the risk, if youget hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there isno sense living your life without this. To make the journeyand not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived alife at all. You have to try. Because if you haven'ttried, you haven't *** I Choose You by Sara Bareilleshttp://youtu.be/yBWvKLOPccQ I'll Be Edwin Mccain http://youtu.be/19f***h-G4 wonderful Adam Anthttp://youtu.be/rVrdejuqzNs Sade Please send me someone to *** Abraham Hicks ~ It's Time! http://youtu.be/HJcGme5zclA Straight To Number Onehttp://youtu.be/tuQU0sEeUno Journey - Kiss Me Softly *** Joy Williams-Charmed Life http://youtu.be/yBWvKLOPccQ I'll Be - Edwin *** Peter Cetera - Have You Ever Been in Love *** Enrique ***'s mehttp://youtu.be/aHa096VQ8FE Seal - A change is gonna come ****** LONG,SLOW KISSES *** A Woman's Heart - Chris de Burgh http://youtu.be/hyCom4PuAHI She Charles Aznavour *** Your Love Amazes Me - John Berryhttp://youtu.be/FbsbqbckLQ4 Johnny Reid - Dance With Me Shakespeare said:I always feel happy, You know why? Because I don't expect anything from anyone, Expectations always hurt.. Life is short.. So love your life.. Be happy.. And Keep smiling.. Just Live for yourself and Before you speak, Listen Before you write, Think Before you spend, Earn Before you pray, Forgive Before you hurt, Feel Before you hate, Love Before you quit, Try Before you die, Live......That's Life...Feel it, Live it Love it & Enjoy itA Woman’s Beauty....The beauty of a woman isn’t just from her body…but from her soul…you can see a woman’s beauty… by the way her soul, flows so softly like silk…. As it glides gently over her body….from head to toe…or you can feel it from the touch of her hand….while it goes through yours and so lovingly touches your heart….you can feel the warmth of her presences…. by the way she carries herself… as she walks across the floor….with such great beauty, that is radiating so warmly… from her beautiful soul….So remember that it’s not just the beauty on the outside of a woman…. that reflects her beauty…but the inside of her soul…for it will be the only thing….. That will ever bring you warmth and happiness…. to your own soul….. Begin with YourselfThe journey to finding a relationship is just that, a journey that uses all of our life wisdom and experiences.Before we embark upon the journey of finding the relationship that is right for us, we may want to take the opportunity to refine our concept of who we are and our ideas of what we want from life. That way, we are clearer on the kind of person we want to attract into our lives. Part of the journey of finding a mate is learning how to become our own mate. When we can learn to meet our needs without relying on someone else to complete us, we don’t have to form relationships from the space of needing our emptiness to be filled. We can also discover our intrinsic value, separate from what someone else might be reflecting back to us. Getting to know who we are and learning to love ourselves creates a solid foundation of self that we can bring to any relationship.We are fortunate to live in a time when relationships can unfold at a pace that is right for us and take unique forms. Friendship, dating, open relationships, long term relationships, long distance relationships, or committed relationships — we are free to choose the kind of relationships that we want. If you want to be in relationship, but haven’t found the right one for you, remember that the universe works in perfect order and, therefore, right now your life is unfolding exactly as it is meant to be. Maybe all this time has been part of your preparation period for meeting your intended partner. Even the relationships in our lives that haven’t worked out as we had hoped serve us by teaching us to make better choices in our next relationships.Finding the relationship we want can come early or later in life. It may even happen again and again in one lifetime. There is no right or wrong for how to find a relationship nor is there a timeline that you have to follow. Follow your heart, listen to your inner voice, continue to become your own soul mate, and stay open to love. The journey of finding the right relationship begins with being in right relationship with yourself. Lust or Love Take note that most people confuse lust with love; the difference is that while lust is self-serving, love is unlimited and unselfish. When the two of you have no problems in committing yourselves to freely demostrate such qualities as compassion, respect, compromise and dependability, then you may have found True LOVE. Love is when you want to spend the rest of your life with that person, despite their weaknesses. Lust is a strong sexual attraction usually based on physical appearance. Once that physical desire ends, your interest in them may also end. This is definitely trueI would like to talk to you on the phone . than I'm spontaneous so I would be ready and willing to see what happens between us. lets just laugh, spend time enjoying each other ,I don't want to talk about our pasts we all have them lets just enjoy the moment. Meet and see if there is any spark. We could *** on the phone for weeks but until we meet, we won't really know if the spark is real. ****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Thanks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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