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Debbie, 34

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About Me

I am looking for a good Christian man who loves the lord. I was born In South Africa, but have lived in the states for 20 years. I am very family oriented and love being with around family. I love people and sometimes may be to trusting. I'm a very hard worker and work hard for everything I want. I believe in supporting myself, but is not to get spoiled once in awhile. I'm not materialistic money can't buy you happiness. My life Goal is to become a RN I love to help others. I put others before myself. I'm very outgoing and love life. God... Family... Others is my motto!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Political views

    Conservative

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gretchen

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Before I say anything, let me just say: make me laugh and I'm yours. I strive to find a man that can keep me entertained in that regard. Ok, here goes:My self-summary:Self-professed nerd with a heart of gold. Ok, maybe not solid gold, but would you believe gold plated? I'm typically very honest and up front about everything. I don't like keeping things inside; that's what my body parts are for :)Originally from So Cal, I like to laugh and learn and love and am doing my best to just enjoy life, despite crap that may get thrown my way.What I’m doing with my life:Livin' it! I don't know how to answer this one. Ummmm, well I'm trying to enjoy my life? Does that work? Are they asking for a five year plan here, or what?I’m really good at:Making people laugh. And laughing. Oh yeah, and graphic/web design. But mostly the laughing part.Work-wise, I am a freelance graphic & web designer with a marketing background that specializes in software user interface design. The economy has made it more difficult to keep the "freelance" aspect of my work as steady as it has been at its height, but I have been laid off from enough liquidating dot-com companies to realize that I have no desire to work for "the man" that has no vested interest in me. Being self-employed has allowed me to work on my self-discipline as well as allowed me to teach myself new aspects of my business I wouldn't have learned as an employee elsewhere. The one part of sole-proprietorship I will never like and never get used to is collections. I hate making collection calls; I wish everyone would just pay for the work they commissioned :(Anyway! Enough about my work! I like what I do, but this is not something that I focus on all the time. I AM able to separate business from pleasure.The first things people usually notice about me:I'm tall, and I smile a lot. Other than that, you'll have to ask them.Music: Arcade Fire, Sia, Massive Attack, Radiohead, Rachael Yamagata, Air, Adele, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Blonde Redhead, Death Cab for Cutie, Goldfrapp, DJ Shadow, Junkie XL, Beastie Boys, Pogo, Ulrich Schnauss, The Flaming Lips, Frédé I pretty much like everything except country and heavy metal. 1, Star Wars (older episodes only - (Mostly everything else I read is online. I can't help it, I'm of the digital age and have a short attention span, so news sites and blogs are what I'm about at the moment. Oh, and please PLEASE don't *** you liked Atlas Shrugged. Please. Just. Don't. Do. It. Okay?Food: Sushi, a great steak, Thai food... and I'm good with pretty much everything else except Indian food and super spicy foods.The six things I could never do without:-laughter-my supportive and loving family-;-my laptop/phone/technology in general-great sex-- not having a car makes getting around difficult. But after THAT then I like to go out. Nothing crazy, but drinks with friends or a dinner out is always fun. I am also not averse to a night at home with a good movie and/or good company. I'm easy when it comes to these things.I’m looking for:Ages ***Near me (I'm serious.)Who are singleFor long-term datingYou should message me if:-You found humor in this profile.-You think you might like to know more about me.-You are going to space and need a cool nerd-girl to accompany you.A few other things:-I've come to the realization that I am an extremely affectionate person, and need someone equally as affectionate for a mate. It works out best for both parties, trust me.-I prefer passionate/aggressive men that know when to be tender. I said "aggressive men", not "***holes". Know the difference.-Chivalry is a huge turn on. Huge. Many a points are scored when my date is chivalrous.- I'm tall and I'm curvy and I love how I look, and if you don't feel the same about me, then good luck finding someone willing to put up with your superficiality. I'm a healthy human being and am not interested in being judged by the likes of you or anyone else for that matter.-Also, please don't message me if you are extremely religious or a Republican because I can tell you right now that it will not work out between us. Trust me, I've tried.***Oh yes, and one other thing... I'm starting to come to the unfortunate conclusion that the majority of men on here are either complete trolls or totally full of shit. I hate to burst your bubble, boys, but I'm not interested in a one night stand, and I'm not looking for some ***hole that thinks it's fun to try (operative word being "try") to take advantage of a nice girl. I realize I live in La La Land, but I have no interest in playing these ridiculous mind games boys seem to love playing. I am a real person and would appreciate being treated with respect. If that doesn't sound like your cup of tea, then feel free to move on to the next one, mmkay? Ideally drinks out or a somewhat quiet dinner somewhere quaint. I don't think that going to a movie or a concert on a first date is ideal. I'd like to get to know you, and don't think I can in such a loud setting. Also, I don't think that getting coffee is a good first date, either. I've been on a few of those and walked away feeling like I had been on an interview, not on a first date.

  • Lottie

    Online

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Heres a little about me...I have an amazing 18 y/o daughter who is my life and my best friend. Currently there are not many avenues for meeting new people in my daily life and not into the bar scene so thought I'd give this a try. I am very laid back and easy to get along with. I have a fairly quick wit, great sense of humor, and don't get offended easily. If you can dish it out, I can take it! ;) I can't stand drama and wont deal with it. Lifes too short for that unnecessary BS when good communication can solve it all up front and not let it fester! I will try most anything once...how else are you going to know if you like it or not! :) I put friends and family first and believe in helping people when you can. I have a big heart and good spirit, though not overly religious. I am honest and loyal and do not tolerate dishonesty or cheaters!!Love, love, love the outdoors in the spring, summer, and fall and all it has to offer. I prefer shorts and flip-flops to skirts and high heels and meals prepared in the woods to any restaurant!Now heres where you come in...I am looking for someone with similar tastes in activities as well as some of their own they may want to share with me. You should be emotionally and mentally secure! You should know what you want in a partner and in life (as sure as we can be in that aspect as life has a funny way of surprising you). I want a best friend and confidant with broad shoulders and must have a sense of humor!.."don't take life too seriously, you'll never get out alive." I'm not for everyone so if you've made it this far and you're still interested or have any questions, let me know!!

  • Joanne

    Online

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am educated, not crazy, hard working, not into money, well a little bit is good, food and basic needs are good, car, job, stabble living, not into drama, caring, loving, kind and a Good woman ... looking for a good guy. Mr. Clean. With a beard... I have a type he is it. Crazy about good arms... not crazy... but strong. I know you are out there. I Love wife beaters, dark jeans, black boots and those black running hats. Oh and plaid shirts. Makes me weak in the knees. Tattoos are a plus as well.I know that there are men in this world that are kind and good. Help me with this one.Looking .... Doing the work to get what I want. Dreams will come to pass in my life.sweet heart. I am strong. Take me as I am. I am done with trying to someone something I am not. I am not looking to change anyone I ask for the same in return. No one is perfect, good and bad. ... got to love both. I work hard ... more fun is what I need.I am the last person in this world to tell anyone what to do or how to live.I really love mass. I do not spend that much time watching sports but I care. Live is always better.I have a great family and good friends... I am lucky girl. I am only missing my true love. Everything else is ok... getting better.Looking to build a life with a good guy.I am a woman of action ... Doing the work to get what I want.I would like to settle down and have a family someday, have someone good to travel with... build a life and grow old together if we are That lucky to be able too. Not asking for much.ThIs will come to pass in my life. I believe. Something simple. Coffee and conversation ... lets see if we like each others.

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