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Lester, 35
United States, North Carolina, Newland

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About Me

Hmmmm, let’s see.... I don’t like most guys, but because I am not interested in most guys, that’s what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special ;- Definitely nothing rushed :-) I do not have a specific “type” of guy that I am attracted to. To me, it all depends on the chemistry between the 2 people :) Yes, I have dated outside my race and do not have a problem with that - which is a question I get often. You won’t hear me nag and complain because I don’t sweat the small stuff...life is too short for that :) I am independent but far from being a feminist. I am a hard worker, work a lot of hours and am a single, confident, hands-on mom to my 8 yr old son.....which explains this online dating situation :-) I keep my son away from my dating lifestyle and will not bring anyone around him unless I find the one and am ready to commit and take it to the next level. Family and friends are most important to me in life. I've learned that money and opportunities come and go, but your friends and family are always there to help you when you need it. So, tell me...what’s your story? What are your pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness? As for the qualities in men I find attractive, besides physical attraction ... he’s got to have a down-to-earth attitude, genuinely all-around good person, be confident in himself, have a job he loves but that doesn’t control his whole life, is not afraid to choose the restaurant, has a sense of humor, trys to get the most out of life, be able to hold an intelligent conversation... and most importantly, does NOT try to be someone he is not. Just be yourself :-)If you want to know anything else, please don't be shy and just ask me :-) First date….not sure!!! I am willing to entertain any reasonable offer :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bowling
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