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Filbert, 39
United States, Missouri, Golden City

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"If one advances confidently in the directions of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."-;At the beginning of every act of faith, there is often a seed of fear. For great acts of faith are seldom born out of calm calculation."-Max L. LucadoJust getting back into the dating world, I was married for 13 years and she decided one man wasn't enough, too bad for her, my divorce has been final for a while and I am wanting to get on with my life and dreams of being a family man, I'm not desperate at all and believe God works for the best for us all, yet we have to do our part. I don't do bars or clubs and I'm looking for a good girl, a Proverbs 31 woman, a woman true to her word, a friend to develop a relationship with. I'm not too picky, I tend to find the good in everyone, I'm very down to earth, I own my own home and farm. I do have kids and they are a major part of my life, they have a good mom so I'm not looking for someone to raise them, I would like to find someone interested in the family life, I'm not looking just for hookups or casual. Liars and cheaters, abusers, gold diggers or just plain mean girls keep cruzin! I see a lot of comments about where is a "real man" or wanting a good guy, well here I am, most look at the pics and don't take time to get to know someone, give a good guy a chance, you may just get what you always wanted, to be treated with respect, cherished, and loved...go ahead pass me on by... One day some lucky smart, lady will thank you,....Want to know more ask away...If I'm not interested I will tell you so, I believe in being nice to all, and btw I am rather shy and this is new to me so don't just think I'm trolling... We all are beautiful in our own way, I'm just careful who I let inKeep it real Ok, next... I am interested in dating only to find my life partner, I am not in a rush, but I don't see it taking ***months to know if its real and we are both interested or not. I am here on good intentions and not interested in just your body shots or physical attributes, I don't put much emphasis on body types, where your parts are today are not where they will be in 25 years and I am looking for someone for the rest of our lives, not just now or next month. . I do not judge anyone, I am a christian and not a hypocritical one, I believe each person is responsible for their own relationship with whatever deity or God they choose, mine is the one I believe to be "the " God above all others.. I love to have fun and laugh, I'm quiet until I get to know you, I like being comfortable and natural with someone, nothing forced or awkward. I am witty and intelligent, probably not as smart as you but I'm cool with that (-; Yes I'm a big guy, I have alway been bigger I have been active in sports all my life, my mom and dad are big, so what....don't like it, then be shallow, I don't care, plus I know for a fact most women like feeling secure with their man. I believe in romance, holding hands whenever and wherever and as often as we want too. I believe in long kisses, short kisses and am a fan of both and dislike bad kisses, kissing is supposed to be passionate and intimate. I think a woman's neck line is one of the sexiest curves she has and shouldn't be shown off often. Some things are better saved for your loved one not everyone. Intelligence is sexy, we must be able to communicate to have a relationship. I don't like arguing but I like debating. We all have and are entitled our own opinion. I like a confident woman not a boastful one. I like a woman that takes pride in herself, wears nail polish (not all the time, mind you) wears dresses and heels ( I commend you all for being able to walk in those btw) and jeans and tee-shirts with flip-flops or whatever she wants to wear.I think this will do for now hopefully, this is by no way all there is but its more than what was here before.... whether I hear from you or not, remember this, we are all God's children and just because things haven't worked out in the past, doesn't mean it will not in the future. Smile and share some joy with someone today..... Something quiet and fun to get to know each other.not a movie or club, maybe a hike or picnic, let me cook for ya...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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