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Erich, 39

United States, Illinois, Cottage Hills

Offline, last seen Sat, 24 Oct 2026 10:26:18

About Me

I like people that are honest to a fault. No fakes or flakes. Someone who can be serious but doesn't take themselves to seriously. Laid back and spur of the moment folks seem to peak my interest. You get what you put into any type of relationship and it should never be one sided. I love sports so it's kind of a must if I am to spend time with someone. It's ok to have separate interests as long as it is not expected of one another to participate all the time. Be yourself and not something you think someone else would like. If you can't do that you're lying to yourself and worse lying to the other person. What you see is what you get. Compromise is good only if both parties do it. Having fun and communicating go a long way to any successful relationship and I do both very well. I like to travel a lot and have the opportunity to do so because of my career. I'm not shy, I'm just confident knowing what I want. Some people tend to think that I'm arrogant, but that is an ill-conceived notion. I'm easy going and like to laugh a ton. I don't care for people that are still hung up on an ex or old fling. You can't go forward in life always looking in your rear view mirror. You can decide to either move on and try something different or keep doing the same thing you've always done thinking you'll get different results. Actually pretty fed up with the gals that want "The Notebook" fairytale and in reality they usually lead a "; lifestyle!!! I've been through a ton but I don't judge people and expect that in return. Someone elses sins are not to be pushed off onto others that had nothing to do with it. We are all different and no two are individuals alike. Thanks for taking a look and maybe talk to ya/see ya sometime! Whatever is mutually decided. We are all adults for God's sake!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop British Caribbean French Thriller Boxing Drag Racing Rodeo
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