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Darden, 38
United States, New Jersey, Cookstown

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I'm guess that I'm losing faith and I'm not sure if this site is working for me or not, but I'll keep it running for a while anyway.I'm really, looking for the right woman, a goal oriented, independent career woman with her own life and social group is perfect fit for me! She must care about her health, because if someone is unable to take care of themselves physically, theirs no chance of them being emotionally healthy either.I am a romantic (possibly hopeless) guy, that is looking for the one woman that I absolutely cannot live without, and who cannot live without me! As an artist, photographer, graphic designer, web designer, illustrator, animator, sculptor, painter, actor, singer, dancer, owner of multiple businesses, debater, and obviously a crazy multi-tasker I can keep you entertained!I love dining out, and trying new restaurants, and anyone I date should be willing to at least try new cuisines. I love to travel, and if I could afford it that's all I would do, all the time!!! I'm ex-military and have traveled the world, and have been to over 14 countries. I am a non-smoker, (quit almost 8 months ago) drink occasionally and I do love to socialize and this is predominantly when I do drink. I’m divorced with no children (I may want children in future, if it is in the cards). I have remained good friends with my ex-wife, (no worries she lives on the other side of the planet), and I prefer a drama-free relationship. I’m a confident, self assured guy that knows who he is, and I’m an open book, and will share anything about my life or past that you want to know, and am looking for someone who is the same. (I can’t stand liars or cryptic people, if you cannot be straight-forward & honest with me, keep moving, because a lie of omission is still a lie in my book.) Like I said above, I enjoy socializing, dancing, singing (karaoke or open mic), fishing, swimming, gardening, biking and just hanging out on the patio during the summer & I love to grill out and entertaining friends. I know with the dating pool out their that I am more likely to date someone with children, and I am open to that because I love kids, (I'm a big kid at heart!), just as long as there's not a bunch of drama with their daddy. ;) I am a very talkative guy and have a diverse knowledge-base, and can usually hold my own in almost any conversation on almost any subject.If you think you’d like to get to know me, send me message, and maybe we can connect! Well a first date can be so many things! Going for a glass of wine, or coffee, we could go window shopping, dinner and a movie, drinks and dancing, or picnic at the park... lol, the big thing is enjoying each others company, the rest is just location and activities!!Now don't get me wrong, I'm a hopeless romantic, and LOVE planning intimate and romantic dates, but a 1st date here, is gauging whether on not we're going to click! If we do click... watch out baby, the second date may knock your socks off!!!;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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