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Tatum, 40
United States, Connecticut, Harwinton

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This is pretty neat. I feel weird talking about my life or my personality without talking about my kids, but we assume we all love our kids and are good parents first and this is the space to express and enjoy the single side of life, so here it goes...If there is one thing you will notice about me is that I am not aftraid of laughing at myself, and I just enjoy making the best of any situation and having fun anywhere - whether we are cruising around a grocery store or waking along a beautiful beach - we will have fun doing it.I enjoy plenty of typical dude stuff, and now that I am single I plan on starting with some of that because I have put those things on the back-burner during the last 10 years......the man-list also includes: hockey (the Leafs -...Now, if you survived the list, you will be pleased to find out that I also like to balance things out with some very "domesticated" activities...i enjoy cooking immensely - I love to pick a main course item, find a recipe and then customize it to suit my tastes, trying to keep it healthy by using good ingredients, lots of fibre, protein, minimal simple carbs and voila - let's eat!I do really enjoy staying in shape. I have had some ankle/foot issues from doing a bit too much so lately it is a lot of swimming, and just hitting the gym a bit...I just like to be in shape so that I can enjoy my sports - now that I have some free time I would love to re-discover my snowboarding passion on some weekends. I'd love to do some road trips with someone. There is nothing in the world that makes me feel more alive than finding that bottomless powder and just floating down the mountain....in the summer I play softball and (every year I say..) I want to play more golf....I haven't even given myself the chance to think about it much, but travel is definitely going to be a big component for me moving forward........wow- I am starting to really like this....it's like therapy...I'm gonna be pretty cool again...lolSo, that's a little glimpse into what I am all about, and what I am looking for.... I have two kids, I have shared custody, and I am just looking to meet someone to hang out with and enjoy the times when I don't have my kids at this point. From there, who knows...I haven't dated in a long time, so I would love to meet someone else in the same boat so we can just laugh together at how weird it is to put out a dating resume and see who responds...hey, it's worth a try... It doesn't matter what we do or where we go - if we are going to click and enjoy each other's company, we can do that anywhere...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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