Total users: 51,008,821 Online users: 183,468
Allysdair, 39

Online

About Me

UPDATED***Busy father of two, seeking someone who is smart, sexy, witty and in-tune with their wants and desires. I am looking for a woman who can stimulate my mind and also rock my world. I am on the fence about seeking a long term thing but if it happens, it happens. Fate controls that one. I use to say that dating has become more like job interviews, but I am trying to rethink that and still hope that there is some kind of destiny and passion out there. We are not all robots going through the motions yet. I hope not at least.. First Date: I like going for coffee and browsing book stores and talking about this and that. I am very touchy feely and love holding hands so if we meet and we like each other, I might go for the hand holding :)Well anything, aslong as we both are comfortable. You can tell right away if something is going to happen. I hope we both feel it though..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Kamren

    Online

    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    What do i look for.. A woman that carry on great conversation, looks are overated.. Maybe a strong desire to be best friends and work are way to love, passions, desires.. I belong to almost all the lodges in the area and do charity work for them.. To give back a little so maybe she would have to support the time i put into that effort. But heres a true story..!And the oldest member and me had a conversation about love and he told me "I have been married for 54 years now(he's ***and getting threw life was't always easy.. but my wife put up with me and the whiskey for 14 years before i quit, i wouldnt trade her for the world"Hank... Now can you tell me if some dedication like that exists between a man and a women today with people splitting up all the time? I think its time we looked back and learn from people that know how to make a relationship work. And not run away at the first problem in life.. I'll close with this.. I need only 3 things Honesty, Trust, Respect!!I belive thats what relationships are built upon. Some say faithfulness but if you have the first 3 it dont even become an issue becuse you have a strong foundation to build from.. Let's eat , Let's Talk... Find out if were compatiable first :)....

  • Stanton

    Online

    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    I'm just a good guy being a good guy as a good guy should be being which is a good guy. Well................played music since I can remember, cook, energetic, fun-loving, hilarious, loyal, sincere, genuine,very well-mannered and am a gentleman that knows the meaning of being one. My interests are all over the place which also includes art and somewhat of a temperamental artist. With all of that said, I gave up the party party lifestyle. Granted there's no longer that in my life, I still know how to go have fun! Most important, my life is drama-free so if I want drama I'll turn on the t.v. Unique, eccentric, witty, charming, entertaining, a barrel of laughs from time to time, and well-educated. A rather patient, laid-back individual who is looking for someone who is loyal, sincere, and drama-free. Someone who is open minded and respects other individuals views on life. I have a very big heart and at times wear it on my sleeves so yes, I'm a sensitive type of guy that's not ashamed to admit it either.On an average day I usually have the guitar or a book in my hands ranging from history to politics to philosophy, or standing in front of the grill, maybe even flying over the bicycle handlebars and realizing there was a log there after all along some bike trails. Music interest ranges from crazy sitar persian music to classical to bang your head against the wall...........Absolutely love rock shows! When it comes to country.... I'd rather jab my ear drums with a good pair of chop sticks.Hmmm.....What I'm looking for? A wonderful who is looking for a real relationship. Honesty, dependability, loyalty, sense of humor, and good conversation. A lady who can let them be herself with and let me be myself with her, not having a care in the world. Nice, quiet, romantic elegant dinner or even something simple such as coffee or even cotton candy with possibly a movie or walk around the parks. Bowling, fishing, and maybe even go do something retro like roller skating............. Maybe go somewhere and act like we were 10 years old all over again, even if its just for one night

  • Barrie

    Online

    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44

    I was married for 10 years and have two kids, 11 and 14 who take up the majority of what little free time I have. I wish I could dance well and paint...but I can't. I like to sing and perform. My musical tastes are varied. I love and hate some stuff from every genre and I typically tend toward 90's - modern day rock and alternative. I play guitar sometimes to accompany myself but I suck at it. I'm not an alcoholic but I like to drink and my taste in beverages is as varied as is my taste in music. I'm an awesome kisser. I love to be outdoors to camp, fish, hike, etc. but I also enjoy hanging out inside; watching movies, reading, or even being a wiseass on *** have years of experience as a BBQ pitmaster and I like to homebrew so I naturally dream of someday owning a brewbecue business of some sort. I'm a Freemason. I enjoy writing and I really should do more of it. I also enjoy playing ice hockey and I should probably do more of that too. I laugh and crack jokes. A lot. My favorite color is purple. I don't, like, wear it or anything I just like it. I'm a dragon/virgo which means...I don't know what that means really but it's pretty awesome. I'm confident but not arrogant. I'm a little arrogant but it's more of an endearing kind of arrogance, really. I like dogs more than cats. I'd rather own a cat than a dog. Well, according to the chart above, I have covered all four steps for massive meetville success so I suppose I will now sit back, drink coffee, bask in my awesomeness, and wait for the flood of messages to me that are inevitably being formulated even as I type this!I miss having a girlfriend but I've also had some rather tragic romantic luck in recent years and I'm not sure how ready I am. I'm pretty mature about relationships. I'm cool with friends w/ benefits. I'm just as cool with friends without benefits. I'm hoping to meet that someone (just like everybody else) but I'm good with following the "not looking" strategy because that's usually when you find the stuff you're looking for. So I guess I'm mostly looking for friends here and to see who is out there to meet, hang with, have a good time, and see what happens. Ideally, I would like to take my date on a Tahitian cruise where we would swim naked in the moonlight and make love on a secluded beach under the stars. This is all probably not going to happen, though...

Follow Us: