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Emmanuel, 39

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About Me

Preamble:a) If your profile isn't filled out, I wont have any intelligent questions to ask you and I won't resort to "sup girl" or some other Bieberism. We're both better than that. b) I'm really, really, surprised to be writing this - but I'm not looking for a one night stand. Thanks for the ego boost though!! Seriously, I mean it... Thanks!c) This has come up... repeatedly: Full disclosure - I'm a confirmed atheist. I'm ok with your religion if you're ok with my humanistic/libertarian-esque outlook on humanity. d) Due to not getting my butt to the gym for a while I've temporarily crept into a few extra pounds territory. I'll be "tight like a tiger" again shortly. Your patience is appreciated. Addendum: getting fitter daily. I'm approximately ***way to fit and closing fast. e) "nothing serious" means I'm looking for ONE great match and that I'm not willing to settle. Basically, I'm looking for awesome - and you are too, right?f) as much as I appreciate all of your messages, I won't reply to any sender that does not have a photo available for all to see. Not having a picture makes me think that (maybe?) you're hiding something... from your significant other. I'm not down with that.g) most of my close friends are women. They're here to stay - non negotiable. Deep breath and here we go...Me: Yup. I am a widower. It's, obviously, not a happy memory but I learned a lot about myself by going through it. I'm NOT looking for a "bed warmer" or a replacement wife. I'm progressive, confident, funny, kind, and respectful of others - if you have a problem with racial diversity, LGBT people, or suffer from "fear of the other" we won't like each other and we should like each other right? Right. We're all human and it takes all of us to row our common boat.I'm stable - both emotionally and financially. I am also a lifelong learner and I never stop striving to better myself in some way. I will always treat you with respect - whether we click or not. I have one largish tattoo and will likely expand it to a sleeve… or two. I love a girl with ink but it certainly isn't a requirement. Camping, fishing, singing and playing the guitar, skiing, and golf all make me happy. Except for golf… golf and I have a complicated relationship.I am the Lord of the Grill… er... yeah - what I mean is that I love to cook on my BBQ. I especially love watching my son play in the yard as I cook dinner. How great is that?I like all animals but dogs are my choice. I have two stinky, hairy, awesome dogs. I don't hunt - but I like going to the shooting range once in a while. I take my son out for bike rides when the weather permits - my bicycle is, seriously, badass. I'm educated and well read. I can contribute to virtually any conversation. I'm unexpectedly hilarious - I drop joke grenades and watch them go off in people's minds as they get it ***seconds later. I have (gleefully) made more than one person laugh until they peed themselves. I will reoffend at the next available opportunity. I have travelled and would like to travel more in the future, however, with my son being so young international travel might not be in the cards for a while. Cards… I like poker. I value independance. Best decision ever. My son and I live together so my time is pretty limited, however, what free time I do have I'd like to spend getting to know a sincere, vibrant, and intelligent woman. There's always room in my life for vibrant and that's where you come in... that being said, I'm not going to expect much from this site but my goal is to meet someone that I would (eventually) feel comfortable introducing to my son. I'm in no hurry and I'm responsible enough to be selective. No hard feelings. He (and I!) deserve a great woman. You:Intelligent, open minded, capable of rational thinking, engaged with life, witty, wise, and kind. You are sincerely and perfectly you and nothing less.Your turn - keep it classy. I have a three step process I like to employ. Step 1) meet and decide if we "like like" each other enough to explore step two. Step 2) have fun!Step 3) repeatEasy peasy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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