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Bassett, 39
United States, New Jersey, Short Hills

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Understand I use to be a hopeless romantic, truly and during the course of writing my book on dating love and sex I have to face the facts. Now I am practical romantic ( Liberate Lover ...see bellow) and still have a deep loving soul and realize that all the good I do / did in my professional career comes from my loving nature...and you can hate the message but don't shoot the messenger. This will seem counter intuitive to you but the driving forces of single living is a choice in great part and also a failure to wise up...not grow up. Relationships ***** define it in two words? If we end up talking I be sure to tell you. (yes two words explains what this sought after goal post really is about***NOTE :***Even though i am working on a book on dating, love and sex my purpose here is NOT research. Single is prefered choice for two reasons : 1) sexual expierences 2)spiritual growth.MY STYLE – Liberated Lover *(freedom baby)You prefer your romance and love to wild and daring rather than typical or boring, when it comes to physical love, your satisfaction comes more from providing a wonderful time to your partner than simply seeking your own. This places you in the Lover Style of: The Liberated Lover.The Liberated Lover is a wonderful Lover Style, and forms the kind of free-thinking, sexually-exciting, self-confident lover that society once condemned but that a liberal-mind cherishes and exults. The Liberated Lover is a treasure to find, though it can sometimes be difficult to do so because they are often already engaged in relationships or are in high-demand if "in the market."In terms of physical love, the Liberated Lover is possibly the most thrilling and demanding of all, with the one potential drawback being that it is possible to feel 'overmatched' at times by their prowess and selfless giving. Given trust and understanding, and the right lover, the Liberated Lover can be a delight in bed. Depends...my imagination just requires inspiration

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco South American Bowling Boxing
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  • Ishan from Short Hills | Man | 29 years old | Taurus
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    Looking for: woman. In age: 19-25

    Hi! My name is Ishan. I am never married other indian man without kids from Short Hills, New Jersey, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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  • Haywood from Short Hills | Man | 39 years old | Virgo
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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    Hi. The most important things to me are faith, family and kindness.How about you? Life is short and I dont want to miss out on any smiles. Outdoors on nice days an indoors when its not so good. Fun outdoors... the beach, walks, parks, ice cream, fishing, camping, frisbee, golfing, playing with nieces and nephews. Fun indoors... movies, playing games, pool, bowling,an playing with nieces and nephews. Are you happy being u? Maybe we can share some smiles and laughs? Its great meeting new girls but really I'm motivated to find that special someone who wants to have a life partner to slowly experience all the awesomeness life has to offer. Go somewhere and just be ourselves. No pressure, Just see if we like one another.Coffee is good to :)

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  • Jakobe from Short Hills | Man | 38 years old | Pisces
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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    My sonHe is my pride and joy. I cannot wait til he hes old enough and can understand sports. I will take him to them all! That child has me wrapped around his finger. What I'm most proud of1) My son, like I mentioned.2) Buying and owning my co-op, Yea a co-op. 6 years ago. Its not a mansion or even a cottage, but it is mine and Im very happy to have it. Owning anything nowadays is difficult in its self, so thats why I'm proud.3) I have never ever done drugs. Im not an alcoholic, mooch or lowlife. 4)I work very hard for a living which sometimes gets lost in the shuffle for us men and to me thats very unfairA few of my favorite thingsmost reality shows (I auditioned for survivor years ago)any and all types of gaming (ie- casinos, monopoly/balderdash/yahtzee/scrabble, sports)irish pubs/bars (better then the club scene)The NY Rangers (hockey team)SNL (especially Garth and Kat, that french dancing bit, Stephon and Wat Up with Dat? no, it does not involve us playing football nakid)Random thoughts about myselfI have sung at a wedding or 2, no not as a wedding singer like youd think. I mean as a guy having a good time. I do karaoke, again not getting rounds of applause often, but I at least try.I really have no expectations of you other then you dont do drugs or are an alcoholic. If you are attractive, can cook, willing to talk, ask me questions, make me laugh and like sports...whoa! your a keeper! If your older (ahem! I mean mature, lol) or have children it really doesnt matter to me(I'm those things anyway, so I'd be hypocritical to judge you for it). What you can expect from me?I'm quite shy til I get to know someone. Eventully I will, if you let me, open every door for you, make you a breakfast in bed, pick/buy you flowers or pump your gas. Im considerate, respectful of all women. I will praise your positives and will not judge any flaws. There is alot more to me then whats posted here..so maybe you give me a chance...Yours truly, T.J. a beer/cocktail at a comedy club maybe will shoot pool or go bowling. quick draw is cool. i dont drink coffee but il buy you one at the diner/cafe. pretty low key, i like quiet time.

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