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Meredith, 40

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About Me

I am a small business owner. I work in Real Estate. 40 years old. Never married. No kids, no dependents. I'm not looking for anything really involved just this minute. I am being true to myself. And I could be alone...but I'm making the choice to NOT be alone.I think that goals are good to have. Goals keep people centered, and give you something to strive towards every day. If you're not building a better future for yourself - better career, better house and home, a stronger family - then what are you doing? What are you doing for yourself, and how are you giving back to the people you care about the most?I have a strong family that loves and supports me. My core values don't waver all that much. In these uncertain times, it is important to cling to the things in life that are real. Recently, I began attending a praise and worship service on Wednesday Nights. I've always had hope. I've always had faith. And when I was recently tested with considerable challenges in my professional and personal lives, I made the decision to get involved with a church near where I live. It's a good feeling to know that there are other people like me that are out seeking a positive message. I'm in no way looking to preach to anybody or convert anyone, but I've always been a generous soul, and seeking out people that need help with their problems - well, that just comes naturally, I think.I am NOT a Republican. Recent history suggests that is a dirty word. I am what you might refer to as a Fiscal Conservative. I mentioned earlier that I am a small business owner, so I am greatly concerned with the cost of just about EVERYTHING. My musical tastes are quite varied. I was born in the city but raised in the country - so I've always enjoyed western and country music. There are some pop songs I like currently. I really enjoy some Adult Contemporary music. And some smooth jazz and classic rock also. I've been an XM-Radio subscriber for a year now, and there's so much to choose from: I don't channel surf at home - I do THAT in the car.I think that all the other members on this site should take the time and complete ALL the tests and quizzes before you start messaging people. Taking the time and answering all those questions will only help you to determine the best match with the most compatibility. And maybe that's not me, but maybe that is another user for you. Pick an ideal date that could eventually make a good mate, because you never know what could eventually happen.Since everyone else on this site seems to be leaning towards telling other users what they are NOT looking for, I guess I will do the same:*On tattoos...I am not into the whole body modification movement, if you will. It's not for me. Hopefully if it's for you, you're doing it for you and not for someone else. A few strategically placed tattoos is okay with me...classy, not crassy. But if you look like the illustrated woman, you're going to have to come up with something extra to keep my interest. I have found that most of those words and symbols are permanent reminders of temporary feelings. Must be how I was raised. Respect yourselves, people.*On baggage...I realize that there are times in this life when bad things happen to good people. I get it, believe me. But if the unfortunate circumstances of your past relationships keep your psyche filled with bitter emotions, or self-hate...or you just enjoy playing the role of the victim relationship after failed relationship, then don't fill my inbox up, okay? You don't need to be dating ANYBODY - what you need is professional help and a relationship with God. Again, respect yourselves, people.*On Chemical Dependency...Drugs have no place in my life. I don't do them, and I don't operate in circles that enjoy or celebrate that type of behavior. And I could understand if your idea of self-medication means a sip or two of the hootch a couple times during the given week. But no one should aspire to be a hawt mess. if you're drinking EVERY night because you have no direction, hate your job, or you treat your offspring like obligations and the only way you can deal with their behavior is to make it so you can't feel anything at turn-in time, then you also need to jump out of the pond and get yourself a lifecoach to sort out your hot mess of an existence.*On Body Type...I have found that, as I have grown older, I have begun to see the beauty that lies in curvy females. Thin is not always healthy. Neither is obesity. There IS a happy medium somewhere. If you are built like a toothpick, you might want to mix in a sammich or two. On the other extreme, if you're built like the typical NFL linebacker, you probably need to consider eating a salad every now and again. I'm looking for somewhere in the middle. Real women have curves and are comfortable in their bodies. I'm located centrally in Bay County. I'm looking to meet women and/or date women in the Tri-County area - I'm willing to drive an hour one way to meet somebody, but that would be about my limit. I think the ideal first date should be something brief. Maybe a cup of coffee or an adult beverage and some good conversation. If that goes well...maybe the second date could be immediately following the first, with dinner at a nice restaurant? I think the evening could go as long as two people felt comfortable. Starting with a movie might be bad form, but ending with one might be nice.I'm not against meeting somewhere neutral then heading for bowling, or a live band, or an evening stroll.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Let's start with this: please stop here if ALL of your pictures are of:1) You holding a drink in a bar. I don't spend much time in bars, so it wouldn't work.2) You in a mirror showing a messy bedroom or bathroom. I'm not interested in someone who can't keep their own place livable, or can't find somewhere else to take a picture.3) Your pets. I'm sure they're adorable, and I love dogs (& am ok with cats), but I'm not looking at dating your animals. Either way, I'm willing to travel to meet the right woman.I am a very social person - I love to travel and get together with friends, and am looking for an adventurous, confident, fun-loving woman who wants to get out and enjoy life. Dinner (we can make it at home or I can take you out on the town), vacations, sports, camping, movies, weekends away... it's all on the table. I want a life of fun, adventure, passion, and excitement; to really feel like I'm living life again. I'm looking forward to sharing my life with a special woman who chooses to share hers with me.But first, I've got to find that special woman. One who looks forward to going out & Or exploring a city, biking, hiking, canoeing, or camping, or anything else you're up for. A woman who also enjoys get-togethers, whether it's for a local sporting event, firing up the grill (very often, especially in the summer), just hanging around the fire pit making s'mores (you know, for the kid in all of us!), or having an adult beverage with friends. Of course, everyone needs to be able to kick back and relax in the comforts of home, and I'm no different, so she'll also need to like spending time together at home, cooking and baking a meal together (I do both - rather well, actually), playing games or curling up and watching a movie together. I'm looking for a woman who misses me just as much as I miss her when we're not together; but who doesn't need me to be around her to compete her life, and *** me to be there because without me, she feels just a little less complete, and she makes me feel the same way.I'm not one to hang out in bars, as you're not likely to find someone you want to spend time with outside of the bar scene, when you're sitting inside one. But if that's your thing, thanks for reading this far, and good luck on your search!Oh, and if you smoke - I'm not interested. If you are interested, quit, and then get ahold of me. I will NOT date a smoker.As far as kids, I do have my son, but I am open to having more children; in fact, I'd like to have several more. I love kids, and grew up with 9 siblings, but if you already have the children you want, I'm OK with that, too. As I've said, I love to travel, and introducing kids to the world is one of the great joys of parenting. Because this is apparently a big thing with some women on meetville, no, I don't have a Harley - yet - but I'm planning on getting one eventually, because I have friends that ride, and I'd love to go with them.And since so many women on here are interested in a guy's Meyers-%) N (38%) F (25%) P (11%)- strong preference of Extraversion over Introversion (89%)- moderate preference of Intuition over Sensing (38%)- moderate preference of Feeling over Thinking (25%)- slight preference of Perceiving over Judging (11%) I took just one online test, and we all know these can change slightly, but it gives you a general idea.So if you think you could be that "real" woman, and are interested in finding out more, just ask. Because you never know...But do me a favor - make an effort to start a conversation. I doubt you'd respond to a message that just says "hi there" or "hey", & I won't either. For a first date, I'd like to meet in a location you're comfortable with, perhaps a park to take a walk, or coffee house for conversation if the weather isn't cooperating. After getting to know each other, we could grab dinner and drinks, and more conversation.I like spending time to get to know someone, and can certainly spend hours at length with someone I find interesting. If this sounds like something you're up for, let me know!

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