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Mel, 36
United States, South Carolina, Pelzer

Offline, last seen Tue, 10 Mar 2026 10:43:18

About Me

I'll start with the easy stuff. I live alone, I have a working vehicle, a job I love, and don't have any kids. My profile picture is real, and recent. So, why am I here? The fact is, I didn't grow up here, didn't go to school here, and don't have any family here. I moved for my career, and because of my job I don't really have a "circle". I have friends, most of whom are married (or tragically damaged) and I have activities outside of work and home, but the nature of my job keeps me fairly isolated. It's not that I work too much... hardly. It's that I work with kids, and my hours are all "after school" hours. I'm really looking for someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, who knows how to have a good time, without it being at the expense of others (that can be taken in more ways than one), and secure enough with herself to not need constant affirmation of everything in her life. Call me shallow, but attraction is important to me. I do believe, however, there is more to attraction than the socially accepted definition of physical beauty. I am a very easy going person, slow to anger and quick to give benefit of the doubt. I love to learn, and explore ideas. I find people and their behaviors extremely fascinating. I tend to be more interested in the solution to a problem than dismayed by the problem itself. I believe that love finds you, but you have to be in the right place at the right time, and like lightning it can happen more than once, but when you've been struck, it's easy to become weary of the storm. If you're still reading this, and even a little curious, drop me a line. I'd love to get to know you. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Sailing
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