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Alfred, 39
United States, Pennsylvania, Port Matilda

Offline, last seen Mon, 29 Sep 2025 02:26:33

About Me

I have my life together and have been told many of times by married women and other people that I am a good, nice, sweet, fun, good lookn guy why am I single? I can write on here all day about how nice of a guy that I think I am, but it don't seem to matter! Maybe I should write that I'm a druggie that lives with his parents, has 3 kids to 3 different women, 3 dui's, no license, nd doesn't work! lolReally wish I had other opportunities in meeting women, but I work ***days a week with all married guys with families of their own. "Yes!! I have a very good job" for not being college educated! Not that that matters any more lol. I pay my mortgage and bills no one else does but me and I have been very good at it so far. I have what I have because I've worked hard for it all these years on my own.. I'm a pretty easy going, sweet guy & I love children but unfortunately I have none of my own. I very rarely drink or go to bars but I do occasionally enjoy a few beers hanging out with friends. Doesn't happen as often as I'd like it to though lol. I don't like to play head games with anyone and don't want anyone playing em with me! I really wanna settle down with someone that I love! Tired of being single & lonely and want to have someone to look forward to seeing on my days off! Someone to enjoy the sweet simple things that life has to offer! I enjoy spring, summer & fall seasons. Have never really been a winter person don't like being single & cold lol. Maybe if I had someone special in my life to do things with during the winter I would like it more.. Well I really don't know what else to write on here to improve my chances in meeting an attractive, nice, sweet woman that has their life together similar to myself. I don't see the point of adding in here what I like to do for fun in my spare time when my interests are posted above. It's always brought up in *** we can discuss our interests then. If your interested I would be more then happy to talk to ya! Thank you for reading all this! Good luck :-) Meet for coffee or drinks to see if there is chemistry! Then plan a first date! The first meeting is not a "date" its a "meeting" to see whether you wanna go on a date with the person. People can be a lot different in person then online..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Salsa Drag Racing
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