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United States, Connecticut, Ashford

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About Me

I am an intense guy who moves to the beat of his own drum. I took steps earlier in life to give myself the freedom to find and enjoy the things that matter to me the most. These include athletic, social, intellectual and business pursuits. I have traveled to nearly 30 countries, lived outside of the US and plan to do that again. I have a great life and am looking for a similarly minded woman with whom I can share it.I avoid getting bogged down with things that limit my ability to enjoy life like owning too much stuff, making commitments for things that really do not matter (relationship commitments matter to me), and doing things that compromise my health.I have three major categories on which I focus:AthleticsI was a terrible athlete when I was younger, but going to a sports-infused university changed that. I trained in gymnastics during grad school. I took up a strength sport about four years ago and set a national record two years later. I started looking for a rougher sport which led me to MMA. I realized that the best fighters were first wrestlers and moved to wrestling. I now wrestle with some of the best people in the country who train me to be a better athlete and enrich my life.Mentoring younger peopleI thrive on helping younger people achieve their dreams. I came from a rural place with few resources and took longer to figure out certain aspects in life. I strive to help others avoid long learning curves and achieve more than they believe they can. Many of those people have become the best connections that I have made in life.ProfessionalI have done quite a few things, but get to spend my time on adventures as I see fit. I will explain more in person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Malcom from Ashford | Man | 39 years old | Cancer
    Malcom

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    Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46

    i was just in a 12 year relationship lookin to hang out meet good people and hopefully have some fun possibly more layed back person like to chill maybe watch a movie like to go fishin some golfin bowling aand lots of other things im open to try anything that sounds like fun i feel everything is fun with the right person by your side are you her we won't no unless we try no fake women

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  • Johnson from Ashford | Man | 38 years old | Pisces
    Johnson

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45

    I adopted a "work to live, not live to work" philosophy a long time ago, so I'm pretty much lacking that drive and ambition that most ladies seem to find so attractive in a man. But I learned that an 80 hour work week trying to get ahead really cut into happy hour and made taking a proper vacation almost impossible. Just not worth it in my book. I don't feel that I have any real hobbies that could not be cross referenced as vices and frowned upon by the God fearing community. I don't consider working out or running to be a hobby so much as a necessary evil needed to help trim down. I fluctuate a good ***lbs depending on my mood. Sometimes I'll get fat just so I can lose the weight and piss off my friends who can't lose weight at will. I feel that I'm much too irresponsible for my age. I mean, yeah I own a house, a vehicle make a decent living, but my vision is short term. I look to the weekend, or the next vacation, not old age and retirement. If there's a stupid decision to be made, I'm gonna make it and worry about the consequences later. My regrets are surprisingly low considering. And on the flip side, I have a lot of good stories that came out of my bad decisions. So it's kind of a wash. As far as why I'm here, I'm not terribly sure. I don't really date, just find myself chasing unavailable women who are generally trouble. I somehow doubt this will change all that. But what the hell, I'm sure I can find trouble here too.Pretty sure that little bit of insight into my life does more harm than good, but I've never been much for lying to impress people. I've been told I have an abrasive personality to the casual observer, but that it softens once you actually know me. I'm not sure that it really softens so much as it becomes white noise that fades into the background after a while. But whatever the scenario, it seems to work. So you can take me at face value based on this silly little profile or actually try to get past the noise and come up with your own opinion. I like trying new restaurants and eateries, so I'd most likely be dinner some place I just heard good things about and go in blind hoping for the best. Outside of that I have no clue. Not sure I could streamline a standard date without knowing a little about the woman I was taking out.

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  • Oberon from Ashford | Man | 36 years old | Scorpio
    Oberon

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 33-43

    Goal orientated guy that enjoys traveling, sports, and meeting new people.

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