SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Ignatius
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Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45
Why am I still using a free match-making website?Because it's free; cost-conscious women, like me, who would rather save their hard-earned paychecks have better ways to spend their money. Even though women using this site are apparently (from the content of their profiles) bombarded with *** douche-bags seeking no-strings-attached sex, I am resilient (aka stubborn) in pursuing a meaningful friendship and romantic relationship with a decent person on the flip-side of this website.Why am I not meeting women elsewhere?How will I know when I meet the right woman?Obviously, I've been wrong before, but those relationships have helped me identify the unfavorable traits I'm willing to tolerate as well as areas in my own life I needed to improve. My personal and professional goals and expectations are clear; I know where I'm headed and the progress is clearly charted. Determine whether her's are too and prepare to negotiate feasible differences.* I find it difficult to locate photographs that I want to post online, but I find it's mutually beneficial to post a couple photos taken within recent months clearly identifying myself with at least one body shot. I have been on several first-dates where I could not recognize the person I was meeting because their photos were coincidentally or intentionally misleading and only recognized them when they approached me and introduced themselves. Not a great way to make a first in-person impression. What else is this person not telling me? * I often read a profile and immediately determine "she's the one", only to recall that she lives far, far away and then have to weigh the financial and relationship costs of dating someone far, far away. For example, how frequently would we be willing and able to see each other, especially with conflicting work schedules? Just something that weighs heavily on my heart when I read profiles of fantastic women I'd really like to meet who live more than an hour away. How far is too far, for whom would I be willing to make an exception?* I have conflicting thoughts about dating someone who smokes. I smoked ***years ago in college, but generally prefer not to be around second-hand smoke in public. It's not necessarily a 100% deal-breaker. I work on an ambulance with some coworkers who smoke and I understand the profound physical and mental addiction to nicotine, but also understand the profound damage it does, especially carrying a 30 y/o man up a flight of stairs on an oxygen tank. The odor is extremely effective in pervading and locking into skin, hair and fabric. I would be much more understanding of someone trying to quit than an active smoker. Smoking banana peals or anything else is a deal-breaker. * I don't drink alcoholic beverages. I'm certainly not a holy roller or prohibitionist, but I was a heavy beer-drinker in college with a beer gut to boot at that time. I stopped drinking in my early 20's and my life *** both personally, and professionally after graduate school. I don't frequent bars, but I will go places and be around people drinking if I feel a need to be there. Friends and family drink around me without concern.;; reminded us "a man's got to know his limitations." I know mine-avoid the tobacco and fire-water, including the suds. I love coffee so meeting for a cup of Joe easily fits the bill. Maybe we'll have lunch or dinner, but definitely not a movie on the first date. I'm already sitting in a room full of strangers staring at a screen. What if the movie is awful, the special effects were interesting but the plot was absent and character-development was a struggle at best. Will either of us hold that against the other, as if I had anything to do with the poor casting or that *** answering calls on his cellphone despite the collaborate hushing noises that integrated the audience into a solid voice of dissent? Let's keep it simple.
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Harding
Online
Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45
lIke to go out have a good time no drama just fun,love to go riding motorcycles go to movies fishing fishing camping dinnermovie bowling just have fun
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Casey
Online
Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 35-45
Lets see, hmmm... I have my own business and house, live alone and have no pets. Like the water, jet skis or ridding out in my boat. I enjoy good conversation, being a smart a$$ and like a woman that can give it back after i dish it out. I would consider myself a independent, make my own money, choices and steer clear of the BS. I'm on here to meet people and enjoy my life, so if you wanna chat hit me up i'm always down for meeting cool people.Oh yea i love to say things off the wall or over the top just to see peoples reactions... I'm not sure if i'm looking for long term but you never know who will spin you out in life.. If you have a bunch of under age kids that will run me crazy than we are not going to work out. Its not that i don't like kids just don't want to have to deal with kids in my life that i didn't create.. I don't care what we do as long as we are having fun and getting to know each other.