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Ignatius, 38
United States, Missouri, Glencoe

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About Me

Why am I still using a free match-making website?Because it's free; cost-conscious women, like me, who would rather save their hard-earned paychecks have better ways to spend their money. Even though women using this site are apparently (from the content of their profiles) bombarded with *** douche-bags seeking no-strings-attached sex, I am resilient (aka stubborn) in pursuing a meaningful friendship and romantic relationship with a decent person on the flip-side of this website.Why am I not meeting women elsewhere?How will I know when I meet the right woman?Obviously, I've been wrong before, but those relationships have helped me identify the unfavorable traits I'm willing to tolerate as well as areas in my own life I needed to improve. My personal and professional goals and expectations are clear; I know where I'm headed and the progress is clearly charted. Determine whether her's are too and prepare to negotiate feasible differences.* I find it difficult to locate photographs that I want to post online, but I find it's mutually beneficial to post a couple photos taken within recent months clearly identifying myself with at least one body shot. I have been on several first-dates where I could not recognize the person I was meeting because their photos were coincidentally or intentionally misleading and only recognized them when they approached me and introduced themselves. Not a great way to make a first in-person impression. What else is this person not telling me? * I often read a profile and immediately determine "she's the one", only to recall that she lives far, far away and then have to weigh the financial and relationship costs of dating someone far, far away. For example, how frequently would we be willing and able to see each other, especially with conflicting work schedules? Just something that weighs heavily on my heart when I read profiles of fantastic women I'd really like to meet who live more than an hour away. How far is too far, for whom would I be willing to make an exception?* I have conflicting thoughts about dating someone who smokes. I smoked ***years ago in college, but generally prefer not to be around second-hand smoke in public. It's not necessarily a 100% deal-breaker. I work on an ambulance with some coworkers who smoke and I understand the profound physical and mental addiction to nicotine, but also understand the profound damage it does, especially carrying a 30 y/o man up a flight of stairs on an oxygen tank. The odor is extremely effective in pervading and locking into skin, hair and fabric. I would be much more understanding of someone trying to quit than an active smoker. Smoking banana peals or anything else is a deal-breaker. * I don't drink alcoholic beverages. I'm certainly not a holy roller or prohibitionist, but I was a heavy beer-drinker in college with a beer gut to boot at that time. I stopped drinking in my early 20's and my life *** both personally, and professionally after graduate school. I don't frequent bars, but I will go places and be around people drinking if I feel a need to be there. Friends and family drink around me without concern.;; reminded us "a man's got to know his limitations." I know mine-avoid the tobacco and fire-water, including the suds. I love coffee so meeting for a cup of Joe easily fits the bill. Maybe we'll have lunch or dinner, but definitely not a movie on the first date. I'm already sitting in a room full of strangers staring at a screen. What if the movie is awful, the special effects were interesting but the plot was absent and character-development was a struggle at best. Will either of us hold that against the other, as if I had anything to do with the poor casting or that *** answering calls on his cellphone despite the collaborate hushing noises that integrated the audience into a solid voice of dissent? Let's keep it simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Classical German Spanish Thai Turkish Comedy Sci-Fi Cricket Dirt Bike Racing Snowboarding
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