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Bren
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Man. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-36
Given that several introductory profile questions relate to sexual exploits / relationship skills and behaviors with only give basic yes / no answer possibilities rather than making the questions open ended, I have to start with the fact that I do not truthfully have an answer to some of them; I am still a virgin and do not have a lot of dating experience. I can honestly say, however, that I am an enjoyable person to be around, and the more that I can learn about the people that I spend time with, the more I am able to tailor the variable facets of my interests as well as to synch my social mannerisms to get along well with almost anyone. I still maintain chivalrous characteristics from my upbringing and can honestly say that my first priority on a date is to make sure that I provide the person that I am with with a positive and enjoyable experience, and am myself simply trying to meet someone who I can enjoy spending time with, and who has a personality type that molds as effortlessly as possible with mine to create a relationship that functions on a deeper level than the superficial, transparent, or in some cases even nonexistent emotional connection commonly considered "good enough" for use as the basis of a relationship. I am hoping to have a chance at least to try to get the opportunity to meet someone who also can respect this approach to beginning a new relationship with someone, even if it is somewhat less common than it used to be, because I like to think that it is a more honest and solid mental and emotional foundation that ultimately leads to the greater and ultimately more successful long term relationship. This is what my ultimate goal is when I consider the point of dating in the first place: the chance of finding a respected equal with whom I can potentially share my life with, not the person who is willing to waste their efforts time and again with an ever changing string of people they may know nothing about for the opportunity to temporarily experience the companionship of another not for a lifetime, but for one night. I seek the potential for a true emotional and intellectual companion for myself when I date, not the temporary physical companionship that has become the driving force in the minds of too many people in the dating scene. I am looking for someone who still believes that the endgame of the dating world is ultimately to leave the dating world, and to come away from it with another with whom you feel a mutual bond strong enough to rely on and to be happy enough with to know that companionship will no longer be something that must be sought out, but something that has been found and will no longer diminish but will become an endless source of strength for you and your partner.
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Gale
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Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 34-44
I am 41 years old (sorry, unfortunately I can't change without creating new profile).A little apprehensive about showing too much here as I think that getting to know someone should be a little more natural/organic. That's part of the fun of meeting someone new and getting to know them. Maybe I am just old school but it seems that people don't go out to meet people anymore.Anyway, I am easy going, very nice, respectful. I try to live by the Golden Rule and that takes me pretty far in life. I'm kind of a contradiction in that my job is stereotypically nerdy, but I am not. I have been referred to as "punk rock accountant" in the past.I like to do a lot of different stuff and try different things, there's so much out there to do and experience, I don't believe in limiting yourself, although I do have some favorites. I have a few harleys that I like to go out riding with my buddies. Looking forward to do some longer trips up the coast when it gets warmer.As far as music I like old school punk, rockabilly and checking out good DJs. I like to check out good local shows/bands.I like to go snowboarding a bunch, play hockey & run with my dog. I really like to get away for the weekend & The first date for me would be something casual and mellow and would depend on how much we talk beforehand. I would really like to get to know someone and talk to them. I don't think I would plan a big date, those would come later.
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Acie
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Man. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: woman. In age: 36-46
I still haven’t lost all faith in the never ending love story or romance and love. And I’m not afraid to tell and hear the truth even if it may hurt. Just looking to meet honest good real people.