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Jude, 37

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About Me

I'm a NC boy with a slight twang I can't seem to fully neutralize. I'm as comfortable on a farm as I am at the opera. I love to travel & have been to most of the states. I am a huge theatre buff & see plays more often than movies. However, a quiet evening curled up on the couch is just as rewarding. I'm also fluent in ASL & have a lot of friends in the Deaf community.My general philosophy is that the activity isn't as important as the person. Spending time with an interesting person is enough to entertain me.Education & self-awareness have always been and continue to be a high-priorities in my life, and it would be difficult to take a serious interest in someone who does not make an effort to be a better person on a daily basis. Any date that would allow for good conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Matthias

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    So I guess this is where I am supposed to tell ya a little about me, and what I am looking for. Pretty simple I guess-but makes you stress out in trying to cram all your stats and hopes and ideals into a small paragraph. But here goes… First off, I am an old fashioned kind of guy who loves being in a relationship. I am a LTR kind of a guy, and would love to meet the same. I’m just an easy going, laid back kind of a guy, who prefers to stay at home with a good movie. I am an average guy. I don’t have a six pack, nor do I go to the ‘gay church’, aka THE GYM! I like to relax with a nice glass of wine at dinner, sharing it with someone special, as we talk about our day. I don’t get upset or angry very easily--and love to laugh. Some tend to think that I am a huge smart-ass, as I tend to use my quick wit in a variety of situations. At first, I am shy, just observing what is going on around me. But once you get to know me--and I feel comfortable--well then watch out! ;) I hope to find someone to share my life with that isn’t all ‘wrapped up in the scene’. Someone that isn’t shallow or self-absorbed and isn’t concerned with what others think. Someone that smiles when he sees me, as if there is no one else in the room. Someone who thinks about me ‘just because’, whether it is just a random thought-- Someone that can know what I am thinking and feeling if I have had a shitty day without me even saying anything. Someone that laughs at my corniness, and thinks it is the most wonderful thing in the world. Someone who just likes me and likes being with me for me--and hurts when we are apart. I tend to like guys around my age. Someone who is mature and knows what direction his life is going. Someone who wants to develop and share a life with another, in good and bad. Isn’t that what life is about? I am also dealing with a chronic illnesses, so you must be okay with that (it's nothling deadly-so no worries! :)

  • Larrie

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Laid back guy who enjoys the No drama type of scene. Ordering out and having a couple beers with good people is my idea of a good time. Just a go with the flow of things guy here. Open to most anything.

  • Hananiah

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Please check your ego at the door. I'm a simple kind of man. I don't care to go out to the bars too often, though I admit I go out when I need to surround myself with male energy. However, I can't stand the genre of music at the gay bars. Overall Im not a fan of bars. I ended an 8 year relationship last sept. I've been single for a year and am ready to start dating. Once you have a taste of ***I don't surf because Im lazy LOL - I am very active. I used to stay fit by lifting. I stopped lifting last June, for numerous reasons (Boredom being the primary reason). I've replaced lifting with Yoga. I love it. I love to dance. I get into the music. I don't need to get inebriated to dance. I believe dancing used to be a form of prayer (hello rain dance) but as we have become more disconnected in this connected age we have forgotten about the power of dancing. Deep house music is my favorite music. Im simple. Going to the beach would work, a night out listening to deep house. The perfect date would be kitesurfing with someone who knows how to kitesurf. I'd settle for going out for a drink.

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