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Jervis, 38
United States, Connecticut, Ledyard

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Jun 2025 10:13:12

About Me

I like to do a lot of different things, but I don't need to do the same thing over and over. I like animals and kids. I have my kids ***days a week. I don't mind finding someone who already has kids, but I am not interested in having more. I like capable and confident women. I'm not looking for someone who needs to be taken care of. Not that I don't like serving the one I love. On the contrary, I will swim through shark infested waters to bring my lover a lemonade. I want a partner that wants to enjoy life together and sees it as a partnership. I am very affectionate and playful. I like to joke as well as have serious conversations. I can't stand people who treat the ones they love worse than people they barely know. I don't like to be around people who are always serious. I am not interested in participating regularly in any organized religion. I guess you could call me Agnostic. I've spent plenty of time in church and felt like my time would have been better spent doing things like actually helping others, exercising, or some other hobby. I can hear all view points, including atheist views. I hope for something more. I have always craved that connection with just one person. Chemistry. Trust. Love. I believe in these things. Oh btw, I'm a pretty big deal, people know me, I have many leather bound books and my office smells of Mahogony. All that serious talk needed some Ron Burgundy. I usually like a first date that lends itself to uninterupted conversation. Like dinner, drinks, walk, drive, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Spanish Animation Crime Documentary War Basketball Volleyball Play Sport Games
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