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Arin, 38
United States, Connecticut, Ledyard

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About Me

.. My life today is primarily about my amazing daughter. We play, sing, and dance like there is no tomorrow! We stay really busy between swimming, the zoo, omsi, festivals/parades, yearly events, hikes, and anything else we can find to get into.I am still friends with a lot of my childhood friends. I purchased a house in my childhood neighborhood. Were my friends and I still hang out, play sports, camp, fish, and play cards together. My life and journey to date have been like no one I know. I am a former Drum & Then back into more established careers where I worked for the state, worked in healthcare, then worked for the swoosh, and now loving my job. I have two large dogs. They are trained better than any dogs I know, yet if you do not like dogs... We probably aren't going to work out.I enjoy hanging out and relaxing as much as going out. People describe me as the most honest person they know. I value trust, communication, honesty, loyalty, and people who enjoy giving as much as receiving. If you ask me, I can dance, sing, tell jokes, and hold a intelligent conversation with the best of them! Love all music, from jungle, to heavy metal (my old roommate is one of the best drummers in town in many metal bands), jazz, folk, old school rap, and on an on! If it has a good beat, acoustic sound, or beat that is hitting, I am probably digging the sound! Looking first to be friends... My match will be independent, know herself, have a passion for life, wants to give as much as receive, and can hold a conversation. ~Regardless, be true and be you...Update: You are all beautiful for who you are, yet I am USUALLY attracted to what this site considers thin, athletic. and average women. No intimate encounters either, so I had to update my profile. What am I, meat? *** Also LOTS of liberties with how old you are ladies... The truth will set you free! "First Date"In the car I just can't wait,to pick you up on our very first dateIs it cool if I hold your hand?Is it wrong if I think it's lame to dance?Do you like my stupid hair?Would you guess that I didn't know what to wear?I'm too scared of what you thinkYou make me nervous so I really can't eatLet's go, don't wait, this night's almost overHonest, let's make this night last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverWhen you smile, I melt insideI'm not worthy for a minute of your timeI really wish it was only me and youI'm jealous of everybody in the roomPlease don't look at me with those eyesPlease don't hint that you're capable of liesI dread the thought of our very first kissA target that i'm probably gonna missLet's go,don't wait, this night's almost overHonest, let's make this night last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverLet's go, don't wait, this night's almost overHonest, let's make, this night last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last foreverForever and ever, let's make this last forever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Canadian Middle Eastern Thai Documentary Basketball Dance
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