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Amasai, 27
United States, Hawaii, M C B H Kaneohe Bay

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About Me

Before describing what I'm seeking, I will put up some disclaimers at the outset. I'm a person who cannot settle for the average in any area of life. Although I'm not physically choosy, the woman I'd want to be with must stand out from the crowd in terms of her personality, interests and passion for life. You don't have to be a supermodel - if I wanted plastic, I'd buy a Barbie doll - but you must be unique in all the world to me, even if others don't see you that way, and in the end I must be unique in all the world to you, or the relationship won't work out. I'm particularly drawn to artsy, creative women, but open to dating other types as well, provided we click at some level. While I enjoy some of the more traditional, "sexy" things couples do together, I'm also looking to share the simple moments of life with someone who is appreciative of what life has to offer; someone who finds cuddling on a bench by the river and feeding ducks just as sexy as a fancy dinner and night at the opera. I want to hold my woman in my arms and not have to tell her that she's special to me, because we're too busy looking into each other's eyes and laughing, and we both know that the best things in life don't always need to be described or spelled out.I'm looking for a woman who is passionate about life, open-minded and willing to embrace new experiences. I want someone who's grounded enough to know where she's going in life, but cracked enough to still be fun. My ideal woman who would be open to finding authentic companionship and a good conversationalist. I adore a woman who is intellectually engaging, but still willing to let her inner child come out to play; who can be equally at home climbing a fence or exploring an old building as she is sharing tender glances over a candlelit dinner on my porch. While I enjoy the outdoors (hiking, camping, etc. I'm eccentric, driven, artsy and creative. I'm into esoteric spirituality, but not an official member of any one path or religion. I'm ok with dating someone who is religious, but you must be open-minded, because I do study some odd things, like alchemy. Although I generally play nice, I'll warn that I'm not entirely fluffy - I enjoy a nice glass of absinthe now and then and I don't mind playing in the shadows a bit. I'm more likely to spend Friday night at the local new age bookstore or at an art gallery than I am sitting in a bar listening to country music. If that's too nontraditional for you, then you would be better off finding a guy who watches NASCAR and drinks PBR - fair warning. :)If I was going to make a statement to any future lover, I think the poem below would be it. Check it out and if anything here sounds of interest, drop me a line and let's get to know each other a bit. Your pic will score mine.The InvitationBy: Oriah Mountain DreamerIt doesn't interest me what you do for a livingI want to know what you ache forand if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you areI want to know if you will risk looking like a foolfor lovefor your dreamsfor the adventure of being alive.It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrowif you have been opened by life's betrayalsor have become shrivelled and closedfrom fear of further pain.I want to know if you can sit with painmine or your ownwithout moving to hide itor fade itor fix it.I want to know if you can be with joymine or your ownif you can dance with wildnessand let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of yourfingers and toeswithout cautioning us tobe carefulbe realisticto remember the limitations of being human.It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling meis true.I want to know if you candisappoint anotherto be true to yourself.If you can bear the accusation of betrayaland not betray your own soul.If you can be faithlessand therefore trustworthy.I want to know if you can see Beautyeven when it is not prettyevery day.And if you can source your own lifefrom its presence.I want to know if you can live with failureyours and mineand still stand on the edge of the lakeand shout to the silver of the full moon,"Yes."It doesn't interest meto know where you live or how much money you have.I want to know if you can get upafter a night of grief and despairweary and bruised to the boneand do what needs to be doneto feed the children.It doesn't interest me who you knowor how you came to be here.I want to know if you will standin the center of the firewith meand not shrink back.It doesn't interest me where or what or with whomyou have studied.I want to know what sustains youfrom the insidewhen all else falls away.I want to know if you can be alonewith yourselfand if you truly like the company you keepin the empty moments. Message me and let's find out. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Christian Traveling British German Italian Thai
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