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United States, Hawaii, Haiku

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About Me

Here goes... I am a musician. I stay up late because my work schedule calls for it. I love all kinds of music, movies and books. I like to just hang out and have a good time. I don't like to argue. I am very straight forward about most things. I laugh a lot. I am easily amused. I like things that smell good. I like things that are clean. I like asking weird questions and talking about things most people never talk about. Everyone thinks male musicians are womanizers and that it's easy to meet Women. This is not true. At the end of every show, people are gone cus last call happened 20 minutes ago or they are all in bad shape anyways. Haha. The only women I ever meet are the mothers of my students, who are all married, and the occasional adult student who is also 98% of the time... married. Haha.No-No's for me: -Mental illness, Lack of imagination. If I ask you something, anything is better than no response. I like imagination. Also, if you don't work you're not an adult. if you don't drive you're not an adult. Sorry. That's how it is from my standpoint.I don't just say "hey" and expect you to pick it up from there, so why should you? Be a go-getter. Be daring.Question for you to answer in your first message to me. (See? I have it all planned out) You can only have one ethnic food to eat for the rest of your life. What is it? Follow-up question, if you could only have one condiment from now-on, it would be? Hanging out. Coffee, Tea or whatever. No loud places. I like to clear the air and let people know who I am, and make sure They aren't a serial killer. Haha. I like to be friends first, and THEN you can decide if you have feelings for a person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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