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Jake, 30

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About Me

Hi everyone!It's cliché to say "I hate writing these things", but I really do... Nobody can summarize their life in a paragraph. That said, I'll give 'er a try. :)Ultimately looking for the right guy to spend my life with, I'm looking to get out to meet others from the area. I'm not really active in the gay scene, so I figured meetville was worth a try... :) As for myself, I'm gay, out, but definitely on the masculine side by character. I'm a bit of an introvert at times; I've been called an old soul... But I'm also very motivated and love to go out and do all kinds of stuff. In a nutshell though, you'll find me toying with a car/boat/etc., skiing, or any other myriad things before you see me at a gay club or something (not that the latter isn't fun once in a while, too). I'm a bit rough around the edges... I cut my own hair with clippers, bite my nails, and my wardrobe consists of whatever is on sale at Target. Love to travel, enjoy cooking and eating pretty much everything (the more unique the cuisine, the more interesting...), definitely enjoy relaxing weeknights being a bum watching TV, dabble a bit with computers, home theater, watch/play some sports, etc. Oh... Beer is good too. IPAs, Stouts, and other flavorful beers please. Or a gin and tonic. Speaking of vices, I do have a "hobby" on the side that can be sexual in nature. Not fodder for posting here, but if anyone wants to know, ask via PM.My ideal partner would be someone of similar stature to me (in all honesty, I like slim guys :) ), and someone not too significantly older. That said, whom a person is, is a lot more important... Someone that shares similar spontaneity and isn't afraid to try new things, but yet can chill out and relax at times would be awesome. I'm still very much young at heart, and I'd like you to be so, too.So uh, shoot me a message. And we'll chat. And stuff. If you do though, please say more than the usual "sup bro", or "hi", or "omg ur hott"... Tell me a lil' about yourself! I may not respond if you don't. ;) I could think of a million different scenarios. Finding fun stuff to do is what I'm good at, so it all depends on what my date would like.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jedidiah

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    Man. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I'm looking for friends and guys to possibly date. If I had some people I already know when I move there, that would be super cool.I'm very social, passionate, easy going and extremely honest and straightforward. A friend once described me as a party looking for a place to happen.I've been ballroom dancing for 8 years, am a disaster trained responder, am studying Unmanned Aerial Vehicles and can pretty much fix anything.I am a very emotional being, am extremely affectionate and love to experience life to its fullest. I jump in with both feet right off the bat which sometimes gets me in trouble. I'm not really afraid or that insecure about much so I like to just go for it.Looking for guys that are outdoorsy, athletic, masculine, social, passionate, honest, open and confident. As a first date I would love to hangout all day. Then walking around talking, getting some ice cream, doing some ridiculously fun activites and maybe seeing some sights. As the day got later dinner would be easygoing but unique, preferably with tiki torches on an outdoor deck at sunset. Followed by a live band, dancing and some fruity alcoholic beverage. Then off to the beach for a bonfire and a blanket to gaze at the stars. That would be a very ideal first date... really a fantastic date in general, but a great way to get to know someone in many facets over a long period of time. Go big or go home right? :-)

  • Dudda

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    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    Just looking around to see what's out there I have been single for 1.5 yrs and am ready to look for something serious again

  • Marquis

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    Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Hi guys,I really hate these things, its so hard to explain my personality with a bunch of words on a page....but I'll give it a shotThe first thing I will say is that I am an animal lover, first and foremost. I believe animals are in equal standing with humans. Elephants and Dolphins have intelligence that matches humans, why can't other animals too? If you believe that animals are without a soul, or unable to understand us because they are "just animals" stop reading now.I love music, it is a force that transcends anything, language, race, religion, and all of that other stuff, if you only have one common bond with another human being, it is probably music. I respect all types of music. A person can love Mozart and Brittany Spears. I love reading. Whether it be a book, or an interesting blog, or a great article, I believe it all has some form of Knowledge, and Knowledge is power.I think intelligence and education is important.;don't care" about grammar, or spelling, or things of that manner, I have no time for you. I am not saying you have to be an English teacher, but at least make an effort. I do not believe in violence, at all. It does not solve a damn thing, it only spawns more violence. If you can not solve a problem like a mature, civilized adult, then honestly, I don't want to know you. To me, it means that you think you have something to "prove", when in actuality, non-violence has actually proven something on its own. Being a man isn't about how good you are at throwing a punch, its about when knowing not to.I also believe in good manners. The words "please" and 'thank you" should not be reserved for formal settings. Also, good manners go beyond please and thank you; if you don't know how to hold a door for someone, or knowing that talking with your mouth full is not endearing, or that in a place like a church, or a movie theater, or a library, you don't hold an in depth conversation, then you have never been taught what real manners are. I am not a religious person, but I do believe in having a belief system. Having a belief system helps us navigate through our every day life, morals, and values, and self respect are important, and sharing a life with someone means having at least similar beliefs. Sex is good, but if there is no intimacy, or passion, then there really isn't a point. I live to travel, and experience new things. Being stagnant and staying in the same place all the time, makes for a very dull life. Nature is beautiful, there is nothing better than laying in an open field, and staring up at the stars having an intimate conversation.I adore my family, but it is not a subject that I plan to talk about on the first date, I want you to know ME first, they will come in time. I have no tolerance for drama, I am too old and too mature for it, and I don't want it in my life. I also have no tolerance for prejudice or hate of any kind, I do not pass judgement of any kind on any one for any reason, I live my life the way I see fit, and I let others live theirs too. Katherine Hepburn put it the best "No apologies, no explanations". Also, I don't do the "needy" thing. If there is no trust, there is no relationship. If you expect to be texting or be together every single waking moment of the day, then please stop reading now and move on. I am a grown up, I behave like a grown up, and I expect the same from you. I am also out and proud. It has taken me a long time, and really hard work to get where I am, I can not be with someone who is "closeted" or afraid of showing their love. If I am going to be in a relationship, I want to be able to hold your hand, or kiss you, or cuddle you, even in public. I want to be able to meet your family, and introduce you to mine. If you are still going through the struggle, I can respect that, I have been there, but I have moved past it in my life. It goes back to the no drama thing. So, this is a little bit of me, I have plenty more to say, but I am sure you are as tired of reading as I am of typing, if there is anything else you want to know, don't be afraid to ask...and on that note, if you are going to send me a message, please make sure it contains more than "hi", tell me something interesting. Hmm, a first date......maybe dinner, to start off, but you really can't get to know someone while gnawing on a half masticated animal. After dinner maybe we could just go for a walk or a drive, maybe find a quiet spot where we can start to get to know one another.

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