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About Me

A friend & I were talking one day & the question was brought up - what would you be bringing to a relationship? I have a good job that I'm not married too, take pride in my appearance but not high maintenance, own my own modest house with the bank, & drive a newer vehicle. I like all kinds of music, travel, lake time, get togethers with family & friends. I like to curl in the winter & would really like to golf more in the summer but am really bad at the game! I could be classified as a homebody but also like to get out & do things. I consider myself to be energetic, not lazy, like to take care of business but would also like to be taken care of for a change. I am pretty much a girly girl! I am looking for someone who can bring at least the same thing to the table (except the girly girl part!) Someone who would include me in their world. Someone who would put as much effort into me as I put into them. I want someone who isn't scared of committment and who isn't scared to communicate their thoughts & feelings (you know us women like that kind of stuff). I want honest & hard working - I find that very attractive. But then when its time to go out has a clue on how to clean up - I'm not into a booty call, nor am I looking for just friends. I know a relationship has to start out as friends but if you are not willing to move forward at some point in time, then I am not interested.At this stage in our life we all come with some baggage. As long as you have dealt with the baggage then it doesn't become an issue.I get that visual attraction is huge. It is for me too.So if my profile interests you, send me a message, lets chat a bit, and if we think we want it to go farther then we'll make a plan. Get together for coffee or a drink, see if there is chemistry & see if we can carry on a conversation. Then we'll see!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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